Ex taking son for Thanksgiving

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by 2mares

No disrespect, but if this is your ex's time with his son why are you trying to micro-manage it. He is the boys father, Im sure they will figure it out. My thoughts are you should wish them a good time and then let them have one.

I guess I would have to say that because the last 3 trips that ex has taken our son on, to spend time with the family, I received a big, long email from his sister explaining to me how terrible he did while he was staying with his sister. So....Im sitting here scratching my head thinking..."OK. whats it going to be THIS time." The last time it was that he did not make his bed, and because he didn`t spend enough time with her new kid, or how he left the door slam, while she had arms full of baby, etc. Not sure how much was directing towards him, and his Dad, but still..
That email said," We want to feel like wanted guests in someones home when we go to visit, not the latter.
Wish it was that easy.....to wish them luck and to have a great time. lol

[2mares]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I guess I would have to say that because the last 3 trips that ex has taken our son on, to spend time with the family, I received a big, long email from his sister explaining to me how terrible he did while he was staying with his sister. So....Im sitting here scratching my head thinking..."OK. whats it going to be THIS time." The last time it was that he did not make his bed, and because he didn`t spend enough time with her new kid, or how he left the door slam, while she had arms full of baby, etc. Not sure how much was directing towards him, and his Dad, but still..
That email said," We want to feel like wanted guests in someones home when we go to visit, not the latter.
Wish it was that easy.....to wish them luck and to have a great time. lol

Did your ex see the email? I think I would just forward it to him, if not, then block the sister from your email account. Seems like something he should deal with.