Observation About Women... (separate, relations, issues, serious)
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How come women will listen to other women's problems but don't want to listen to guys' problems and then expect men to listen to their problems?
How come men always are expected to be strong and silent and never vent?
Omg! Men have feelings?
Omg! Men have needs?
Who knew!
Many women are not raised to believe or understand that men have feelings or needs. Shame on society and the negative aspects of the feminist movement.
But that's not the right way for a society to keep going.
Males need to vent in a healthy way. That's why I think so many men are in jail and prison in America.
Why aren't you there for your male comrades and why aren't they there for you? Given how you typically speak of women, the responsibility of listening to your problems should be for your pals.
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Originally Posted by Ulysses61
I am female and almost never listen to other women's problems. My friends are all male, always have been. Women's problems are predictable and pretty boring. Men are almost always more interesting and vaired.
So, you're boring and unvaried? Okay.
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Originally Posted by reed067
As a guy myself I think your a bit confused I've found that women like a guy who will confide in them.
I think this is typically the norm. When something happens with/to my husband I'm always on him with how are you, how do you feel, what's going on? Half the time he's forgotten his own issue before I have.
How come women will listen to other women's problems but don't want to listen to guys' problems and then expect men to listen to their problems?
No one likes a crybaby.
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How come men always are expected to be strong and silent and never vent?
You can discuss issues without coming across like a crybaby.
Also, early on in relationships, it's generally a good idea not to discuss any personal issues, failings, etc. as it leaves a first impression that, well, the guy has problems.
1) Men don't have problems. We have **** we have to deal with.
2) Women don't want to hear about the **** we have to deal with until they are comfortable in the relationship and want us to open up to them.
3) When we don't open up to them, they tend to get upset and that just becomes more **** that we have to deal with.
Well, clam, if you don't want more **** to deal with, open up!
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