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Old 11-04-2011, 04:24 PM
 
Location: The Mitten
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Is being 30 and seeing a girl who is 23, too young? She just seems like she's everything I ever wanted.
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Old 11-04-2011, 04:27 PM
 
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Is being 30 and seeing a girl who is 23, too young? She just seems like she's everything I ever wanted.
Personally I don't think that's wrong, but different people will have different opinions on the matter. What matters is what you feel about it. (Are you compatible/on the same level?)
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Old 11-05-2011, 11:06 AM
 
Location: city of angels
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any girl below 16 is too young imo
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:03 PM
 
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as long as she's legal it's all good

i've also noticed that the age range one can avail oneself of gets wider with age.
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Kingman AZ
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Remember one thing......as you age, your likes and dislikes change....a woman of 20 will change MORE then a man of 30 in the following 20 years....it happened to me....I married a woman of 20 when i was 30...20 years later, the things that I liked were pretty much the same as they had been when I was 30....NOT so for her....her likes and dislikes had changed enormously....so we split....amicably but a split just the same.
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:21 PM
 
Location: southern california
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its a strange world. its done a flip. but that is bek we guys let it.
older guy with young gal used to be ok.
not any more, now its "dirty old man"
older woman with young guy used to be a scandel
now its ok
she is not an old lady, she is a cougar
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:52 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Let me explain it to you

For safe adult fun me being 36 I will go as low as 19

For a relationship, I will go as low as 26
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Old 11-05-2011, 01:46 PM
 
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18 is legal, and in some places 16 (and in other countries, lower). Who cares about societies feelings.
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Old 11-05-2011, 02:03 PM
 
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18 is legal, and in some places 16 (and in other countries, lower). Who cares about societies feelings.

In the states, it goes by states' rights and most states are under 18.
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Old 11-05-2011, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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I always adhered to two rules:

ONE--The biggie: she's gotta be at least 18, which makes her of the legal age of consent everywhere in the world. I used this rule up until my early 30's or so. And after that, I followed rule number.........
TWO--She had to be born by the time I first had sexual intercourse with a woman. Otherwise, my prospective sex partner--even though she'd be of legal age--would still be young enough to be my daughter, which even an ultra-liberal soul such as myself couldn't abide. My first sexual experience was at age 16, so when I was, say 40, my cut-off age for sex partners was 25.
Or so.
LOL.
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