Getting Sex Elsewhere

[Timmyy]

Originally Posted by Truth11

That gets tiring after awhile...hence the need for human interaction;

Then you need to leave her because you don't her. You may tell me you do but I can't believe it.

[boxercrew4]

Originally Posted by BELLE1180

You say you have talked to her about it............have you asked her if you're satisfying her sexually, emotionally, do you talk about the things you both do sexually, variations, fantisies etc. Is there any way that you think you could rev it up a bit. I dont know what you do/have done but

stivking to normal things like,

sexy text at lunchtime during work,

buy some naughty underwear/outfit

flowers - roses

cook candlelite dinner for her

if your a bit more hardcore than this anyway go for something way out there.

That way you would be able to see if it was you she is not intersted in or just sex in general. We all know it can get boring after a while.

You sound like you still want her, so if you can get past her barrier a little bit maybe you could mention something you like and see if it gets her going for you. Just my thoughts.

Sorry for the late response, but just discovered his hidden forum posts. No, he does none of that. No romance, and it's like I have to do all the work when we do have sex.

[boxercrew4]

Originally Posted by Truth11

I think I signed up with Ashley awhile back but it seemed to be alot of the bunk I used to get on the 'net back when I was actively seeking.

This just gets better.

[boxercrew4]

Originally Posted by Percentage

Isnt that something? Seeking validation from strangers to cheat on his spouse and having the gulls to put her medical situation or fabricate stuff along the way to convince us that he desperately needs to do so... poor woman, i hope she somehow gets a hold of this thread so she'll see the snake that rolls into bed with her every night. Just when i think i've read the most ridiculous thing..another one pops up..unfreaking real smdh...thanks CD for the entertainment.

She has along with all his other posts here. Believe me, things will be resolved in the morning, but not in the way he thinks. FYI, for anyone who cares, he has no romance whatsoever. In fact, in bed, he prefers me to do the work even with my disability...and the only cleaning he does is running the vacuum and mowing the lawn.

[boxercrew4]

Originally Posted by Truth11

Anyway I think she's only keeping me around for a paycheck anymore^

Sure, when I've always earned twice as much as you, even on disability.

[BradPiff]

I feel sorry for these dudes whose wives cut them off like that. They didnt sign up for that.

And most of these sexless relationship stories happen almost always during Marriage and I think there's a reason for that

[maf763]

Looks like somebody's about to have an Oh, **** moment.

[rego00123]

sounds like the dude got married thinking it was going to be the ticket to "free" sex
oh well, im sure he wont learn from the next chick he shacks up with either

Originally Posted by Truth11

What's the point of marriage then once that leaves? Manning up would be taking control of things like I'm thinking of doing.

stop getting married, date and drop them once "that leaves" its never going to be there for you if you continue to act the way you do towards your SO

[boxercrew4]

I have a child that he hates. I offered years ago for all of us to go to family counseling, but it never went anywhere. I'm through trying to fix this. He wants out and is free to go.