8 Reasons Guys Prefer to Be Single (average, experiences, different, interested)

[katestar]

Originally Posted by VTHokieFan

Because women's sex drive plummets after their thirties whereas guys' stay the same.

Are you nuts?!?! It's called biology...the exact opposite of what you say.... ;?

[Dewdrop93]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

The issue is not about wanting it or not. Many women just use it as a bargaining chip. Every time I see the phrase "put out" I cringe.

I think any sort of game playing is just plain stupid.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

I think any sort of game playing is just plain stupid.

Me, too, but it seems to be played a lot.

[Ep-]

id rather just date whoever i want. much more fun

plus i hate kids and most girls want to get married and have kids. yawn so boring

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Women still have to get dressed up and go out

It’s not like a hobo is the kind of guy that will score with the hottest girl in the club. Men have to get dressed up, smell good, groom themselves, etc. among many other things men gotta have to be able to at least have a girl talk to him. Really, women don’t need to put any effort or money to have sex.

Yea, that's what it comes down to. You have a person or you don't. For those of us who tend towards responsible behavior, single or not, it's a better deal. There's no worry about HIV/STD testing (my past MO), which is a big one. Then you know the person really well and he knows you. It's just easier all around

Regardless of frequency reducing drastically compared to when a couple was not married, it is at least with a person you love and loves you, and it’s safer. Hey, gotta look for the good side of it it I guess.

[Dewdrop93]

Originally Posted by onihC

It’s not like a hobo is the kind of guy that will score with the hottest girl in the club. Men have to get dressed up, smell good, groom themselves, etc. among many other things men gotta have to be able to at least have a girl talk to him. Really, women don’t need to put any effort or money to have sex.



Regardless of frequency reducing drastically compared to when a couple was not married, it is at least with a person you love and loves you, and it’s safer. Hey, gotta look for the good side of it it I guess.

You still don't get it! When you are happily married - you don't have to look for the "good side of it." When you marry the right person - life IS good. You don't have to try to justify things, you don't have to try to convince others that your life is so much better than theirs is - you are just happy.

I'm never going to convince you that being married is the most wonderful thing in the world - you are always going to say things like you get to travel more, you get to have more sex, you get to do what you want when you want. And once again, I'll say to you - when you meet the right person - you'll understand.

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

To be honest, I think that the idea that men want sex and women don't is a total myth

The thing is that men are supposed to have more testosterone than women and all those things that are said commonly about how men just go after one thing but women just want to be cuddled, how men think about sex but women don’t, etc. You must have heard that expression about how men are so cold that they give love in order to get some action (sex) but girls, being so sentimental/loving, give sex to get love and cuddles.

I think it does so much harm. Women are made to feel like they are easy or perverted if they enjoy sex

I agree. I mean, come on, if studies/statistics/surveys show that the vast majority of women masturbate (regardless of women not admitting it), why is it assumed that women don’t have sexual urges/needs?

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

The issue is not about wanting it or not. Many women just use it as a bargaining chip

Legal prostitution.

[Cindy_Jole]

Originally Posted by onihC

It’s not like a hobo is the kind of guy that will score with the hottest girl in the club. Men have to get dressed up, smell good, groom themselves, etc. among many other things men gotta have to be able to at least have a girl talk to him. Really, women don’t need to put any effort or money to have sex.

Really, you can repeat that phrase as many times as you like (which seems to be a staple in your posts), but that doesn't make it true.

[Dewdrop93]

Originally Posted by Cindy_Jole

Really, you can repeat that phrase as many times as you like (which seems to be a staple in your posts), but that doesn't make it true.

And quite honestly, if it is true - all that it implies is that men will have sex with anything that moves and women actually have a little bit more self respect!

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Cindy_Jole

Really, you can repeat that phrase as many times as you like but that doesn't make it true.

Oh really? So you have to wine/dine a man, send him gifts, romance him, spend money on him (not you), etc. to CONVINCE him to have sex with you? Men play hard to get when it comes to sex? Maybe you are talking about the few exceptions out there, sure, ok, I’ll give you that. Women commonly say men are after one thing, men just want sex, etc. So now you are telling me men won’t have sex with you unless they are totally convinced you are the right person, timing is right, they are not going through certain days of the month, etc.?

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

And quite honestly, if it is true - all that it implies is that men will have sex with anything that moves and women actually have a little bit more self respect!

Unfortunately, it seems that way. While women want to be cuddled, cherished, share a sunset with their man, etc.