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Old 11-09-2011, 04:10 PM
 
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Nope. Not what I was talking about. I was talking about your little eyeroll. You have disdain for women on several levels, including what they do when they are alone
This is what you want to say. I could say you have a disdain for men like others in the forum. Just carry on and continue with the debate. Disdain for women who masturbate? That would be almost everyone. I have supported women who come up with threads complaining because their man made an issue about them masturbating.

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That is probably why you have such a difficult time with them. Women tend to pick up on misogyny
Men can pick up on misandry too. And I don’t have problem with women. I even date americans when I am in the USA.

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And no, "we" are not talking about how difficult it is for people of either gender to get sex. You are talking about that to the extent that you are hijacking this thread. The article is about different reasons some men prefer to be single. Their alleged ability to have a "sexual smorgasbord" is one of them. There are seven others.
This was brought up when women said men will have more sex once they get married. Which I disagree with and brought my reasons. Interesting how its women who say men are fine with sex when they get married but we don’t hear the same from married men. Sure, there are exceptions.
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Old 11-09-2011, 04:27 PM
 
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This was brought up when women said men will have more sex once they get married. Which I disagree with and brought my reasons. Interesting how its women who say men are fine with sex when they get married but we don’t hear the same from married men. Sure, there are exceptions.
Women didn't say it, the studies linked said it. It's not an opinion and it's not anecdotal. It's just reality. It makes no difference who agrees or disagrees with it.
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Old 11-09-2011, 05:12 PM
 
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Women didn't say it, the studies linked said it. It's not an opinion and it's not anecdotal. It's just reality. It makes no difference who agrees or disagrees with it.
I wonder if there's one out there that studies unmarried couples (living together and those not living together) for a year and then compare it with married couples and compare the results.

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Old 11-09-2011, 05:45 PM
 
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I wonder if there's one out there that studies unmarried couples (living together and those not living together) for a year and then compare it with married couples and compare the results.
You're free to dig up the research if there's any to be found. I'll lend a clue in case you're not sure how to go about it. There are general .com searches in google, as you well know, but those aren't always helpful. It's hit or miss and that's where you will at least find news reports. A lot research can be found at uni's or via pubmed, the NIH, etc. To find something coming from a uni put in your search terms and end the statement with site:.edu. For example, sex and marriage site:.edu. The only results that will populate will be from .edu's. Same for .gov, which is where NIH and gov publications can be found- sex and marriage site:.gov. If you want to find something on a specific site, like census.gov, do a search - divorce and age site:census.gov.

That's not to say it will be easy, but it will make investigations a little easier.
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Old 11-09-2011, 05:52 PM
 
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The men who prefer to be single probably had a history of very low standard and poor quality relationships with atrociously selfish and greedy women. Just because it's a relationship doesn't mean it's good or high quality or nurturing.
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Old 11-09-2011, 06:07 PM
 
Location: The Present
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The men who prefer to be single probably had a history of very low standard and poor quality relationships with atrociously selfish and greedy women. Just because it's a relationship doesn't mean it's good or high quality or nurturing.
there are plenty of men who just want to throw down and keep it at that. Men (and women) who are in low quality relationships aren't that perceptive to their own actions that put them in those situations. In places like the states where a good majority of women don't have any redeeming feminine qualities, you have lots of thirsty dudes. You also have a lot of dudes who behave like submissive women. Its a masochistic pairing, with pain comes certain realizations although nowadays the cowardly advice of "its cheaper to keep her" is a bit too prevalent.
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Old 11-09-2011, 11:51 PM
 
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Married people have sex? Hard to believe, Harry.
Not much but they lie about it a lot to researchers. Then Braunwyn reads these flawed studies and tell us all that we are off base...
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Old 11-10-2011, 02:12 AM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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There are men who have *issues* with women masturbating????? WHYYYYYY????
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Old 11-10-2011, 02:48 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I have issues with women masturbating. It occurs, when they don't invite me to watch or join in.
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Old 11-10-2011, 03:14 AM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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I have issues with women masturbating. It occurs, when they don't invite me to watch or join in.
Bahaha good one
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