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Old 11-08-2011, 01:39 PM
 
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It seems like some of the OP's here, may have multiple personalities.


And they love airing their dirty laundry in public.
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Old 11-08-2011, 02:21 PM
 
Location: USA
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This "He Said/She Said" thing reminds me of a friend I used to have. I worked with her and she would tell people at work how awful her boyfriend was. He was so mean to her, so controlling, etc.

Then one day we are at a wedding reception and she is all over EVERY single guy there, even ones she didn't find attractive (Hello Scarlet O'Hara). Then she would come over to me and whisper how funny it was to flirt with guys and get them all worked up. And guess who is fuming in the corner the whole time? Her awful boyfriend.

Anyone who hadn't seen her in this context would have thought her the unfortunate, innocent victim of a horrible person. And I bet in her head, she IS the victim. Perception is a funny thing.
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Old 11-09-2011, 04:52 PM
 
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Gotta agree with SD. I won't be airing my dirty laundry here.

Now, talking about the douchebags I have dealt with in the past, that's a different story.
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Old 11-11-2011, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Anchorage, Alaska (most of the time)
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Ha! So much for coming on here and only hearing what you want to hear!



Where's the CD couples? Rance, Sweden??? chow? Sea? Anything you need to discuss?
Man if there is! But, unluckily for y'all - it's private
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Old 11-11-2011, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I don't think I could get that interested in someone else's business. I've always assumed we're only getting half the story anyway. <shrug> And maybe I don't read enough threads but I thought the responses to a majority of posts were more on the brutal side. LOL
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Old 11-15-2011, 09:07 PM
Status: "Arrest Darren Wilson!" (set 29 days ago)
 
Location: Center of the universe
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That sure would be something. The problem is, complaining party is most likely posting their problems in secret and wouldn't want their SO to find out how they TRULY feel, yet alone chime in.
Oh man, would that open up a Pandora's box......................
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Old 11-17-2011, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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You know what I'd like to see on City Data?

A girls of City-Data playboy pictorial.

Profile:
Posters of City-data

Hobbies:
Posting
Reading
Chat threads
Profile visits

Turn ons:
Rep comments
Rep points

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Men like LaoTzuMindFu, Antlered Chamataka etc.,
Can't rep you again

Philosophy of life:
Repping one another
Spreading the love around
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Old 11-17-2011, 05:34 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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Wasn't there a thread that had something to do with the OP getting socks as a gift, and complaining, and then her boyfriend came on and explained the thought behind the gift

edit: found it!

What would you think if a man gave this to you as a birthday present?
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Old 11-17-2011, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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I would like to see people quit taking sentences out of my posts and misinterpreting them to suit their own angry agendas. I swear I don't know how many times I can agree with both sides of a situation and be sympathetic to both sides and along comes some bozo and pulls a sentence out or even the entire post and goes off on some tirade when i don't even feel the way they are accusing me of.
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Old 11-17-2011, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Man if there is! But, unluckily for y'all - it's private
We don't want you two to ever fight!
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