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Old 11-08-2011, 08:58 PM
 
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Not a bad idea... Provided he has a wife she can be jealous of that is.
Actually it sounds like a horrendous idea that just escalates the situation rather than solve it.

This issue is actually very easy to solve, just the op is enjoying it and doesn't want to bring an end to it.
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Old 11-08-2011, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Sierra Nevada Land, CA
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Only a perv would notice, yes; but a man that's too occupied with other things won't give her a 2nd look (even if he is straight).
I disagree. A guy who is gay or dead sexually wouldn't give a second look. A guy too occupied with other stuff...? What would that be? Job? Physical problems? Financial issues? Other??? Please let me know what "too occupied " means to you.

The issue is dead to me. Was fun and affirming to my manhood. "Sue" is over. I do appreciate her attention. Nice to know that at my age (61) some mid 40s women find me attractive. Mrs 5150 is going to benefit from my "vote of confidence". Hormores stured up and all.

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Actually it sounds like a horrendous idea that just escalates the situation rather than solve it.

This issue is actually very easy to solve, just the op is enjoying it and doesn't want to bring an end to it.
Umm...read, read the thread my dear.

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Old 11-08-2011, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Sierra Nevada Land, CA
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If you would show your wife this thread, then maybe she'd be up for posing for a semi-sexy picture you could keep in your office. Not too much, but maybe just some cleavage and a sexy smile. Don't even say a word to Skankina about it. Just have it there. Maybe she'll get jealous of your wife! that'd be a fun twist wouldn't it?
Yea, but then I'd get in trouble on two levels. Maybe three. No porn rule, sexual harrasment (posting sexy guy stuff) and the pure tackyness of sexualizing a top attorney in my town for what? Not to mention Mrs 5150 would not enjoy having her **** be part of my office environment.

With that said, thanks for the suggestion. But really, I appreciate your idea. It just would not work.
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Old 11-09-2011, 05:23 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Yea, but then I'd get in trouble on two levels. Maybe three. No porn rule, sexual harrasment (posting sexy guy stuff) and the pure tackyness of sexualizing a top attorney in my town for what? Not to mention Mrs 5150 would not enjoy having her **** be part of my office environment.
Ask Mrs 5150 what she thinks of a female coworker who brings up the topic of her recent mammogram and if its tacky or she wanted to get in your pants?
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Old 11-09-2011, 05:35 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Actually it sounds like a horrendous idea that just escalates the situation rather than solve it.
I don't believe it will...

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This issue is actually very easy to solve, just the op is enjoying it and doesn't want to bring an end to it.
Now, that's true.
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:11 AM
 
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Here's the deal. Unless you sit around an dream up imaginary flirtations from women all day (As in believing that cocktail waitresses, sales clerks, and any other woman on the planet who happens to smile is hitting on you) then there's a good chance that she really is.

But that doesn't mean she's actually inviting you into the supply closet for a little inventory of your equipment. It might be that, given how she's newly divorced, she's trying to determine if she's still 'got it,' or she might really be looking for some fun. And if a reasonably mature woman is throwing out all the details of her personal life to you, you might want to see if she's doing it with others. If it's just you that she's telling, then you might be onto something.

Or she might just be indiscreet. The woman who's cut my hair for ten years was telling me last week that, "My husband's boring me. I just need a good hard screwing. Do you ever think about that?"

So I mentioned this conversation to my wife and asked if this woman was throwing out the hook. She replied, "Oh, that's just Jill. She has no intervening gear between her brain and her mouth."

Now, on the other hand, I had a client who just went through a divorce who mentioned to me all the affairs she's had since the divorce papers were signed. To that, MrsCPG said, "She wouldn't be telling you that stuff unless she had a really good reason to."
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Old 11-09-2011, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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Ask Mrs 5150 what she thinks of a female coworker who brings up the topic of her recent mammogram and if its tacky or she wanted to get in your pants?
Exactly. She wouldn't take kindly to that, or she's super secure that he won't cheat.

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I disagree. A guy who is gay or dead sexually wouldn't give a second look. A guy too occupied with other stuff...? What would that be? Job? Physical problems? Financial issues? Other??? Please let me know what "too occupied " means to you.
Occupied means you're too busy handling business to allow yourself to get caught up in potentially compromising situations. The sheer fact it happened at work should be an automatic red-flag.
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Old 11-10-2011, 01:46 PM
 
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I think we, and that includes the OP, are putting too much thought into this. Like I said before, laugh it off, enjoy the view and walk away character in tact. This woman can't do anything by herself unless she seduces you at gunpoint, and if that happened you could talk your way out if it, but laughing at this point would only pi$$ her off.
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Old 05-26-2021, 11:56 AM
 
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She is sexually harassing you and should be reported. Just imagine if you wore very tight jeans and stood with manhood showing and then mentioned your testicular check went just fine... She'd have you strung from the rafters!
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Old 05-26-2021, 12:27 PM
 
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She is sexually harassing you and should be reported. Just imagine if you wore very tight jeans and stood with manhood showing and then mentioned your testicular check went just fine... She'd have you strung from the rafters!
You do realize the previous post was 10 years ago? I reckon OP's either been fired or gotten some by now.
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