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Old 11-07-2011, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Sierra Nevada Land, CA
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I think she is, but maybe it's just my imagination.

History: So we meet after she moves into the office across the hall from me. Hi! I'm Pete says I. I'm Sue says she, nice to meet you. Casual chat off and on for the next week or so. We have some common interests. We share a passion for skiing. She mentions her age to me-I didn't ask. She shares a bunch of personal stuff (divorced a year ago, her kids stuff, not interested in a relationship). I share back (married, kids, issues with said kids, not my age as I am 15 years older than her). She really makes it point to stop by my office and say HI! every day. For like five minutes.

A few days later she says I'm the kind of person that makes people feel good about themselves (little does she know ) Yea I was a bit encouraging and understanding towards some issues she was having. The next day she made a similar comment to me in a way that I felt I couldn't say anything but thanks to. Gads, I am a happliy married man.

Then last Thursday, I felt something was going on. We met in the copy room by chance. She was wearing a loose low cut top and made it a point to bend over in such a way that I could not help but admire the view. While we talked she averted her eyes for a bit so I had nothing to look at but,....well did I notice she was wearing a black bra. Not that I minded.

And why did she tell me about her mammogram today?

With that said, I don't mind the attention. I mean this woman is very attractive and I am flattered that she is so friendly to me. But be it known: no way will I ever ruin my life by cheating on my wife. I am not tempted, but if I were single....

So anyway, ladies what is going on?
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Old 11-07-2011, 05:45 PM
 
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Skanky home wrecker
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Old 11-07-2011, 05:46 PM
 
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I think she is, but maybe it's just my imagination.

History: So we meet after she moves into the office across the hall from me. Hi! I'm Pete says I. I'm Sue says she, nice to meet you. Casual chat off and on for the next week or so. We have some common interests. We share a passion for skiing. She mentions her age to me-I didn't ask. She shares a bunch of personal stuff (divorced a year ago, her kids stuff, not interested in a relationship). I share back (married, kids, issues with said kids, not my age as I am 15 years older than her). She really makes it point to stop by my office and say HI! every day. For like five minutes.

A few days later she says I'm the kind of person that makes people feel good about themselves (little does she know ) Yea I was a bit encouraging and understanding towards some issues she was having. The next day she made a similar comment to me in a way that I felt I couldn't say anything but thanks to. Gads, I am a happliy married man.

Then last Thursday, I felt something was going on. We met in the copy room by chance. She was wearing a loose low cut top and made it a point to bend over in such a way that I could not help but admire the view. While we talked and she averted her eyes for a bit so I had nothing to look at but...., well I noticed she was wearing a black bra.

With that said, I don't mind the attention. I mean this woman is very attractive and I am flattered that she is so friendly to me. But be it known: no way will I ever ruin my life by cheating on my wife. I am not tempted, but if I were single....

So anyway, ladies what is going on?
Hey, I'm a guy, and I've been there. She's throwing out all the buying signals.

So what do you do?

It's obvious that you're attracted to her. So when you see her coming, say this one thing to yourself over and over again: "I love my wife I love my wife I love my wife I love my wife."

Because we are all fallible. And if someone who is young and way hot is opening up all her personal details to you, not to mention her blouse, it's very easy to let the imagination run amok. And anybody who thinks they're immune to temptation is just suffering from moral egotism.

Hope that helps. I've had the hook thrown my way any number of times in my married life. And the last thing you want to do is let your imagination run away with youo.
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Old 11-07-2011, 05:51 PM
 
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So anyway, ladies what is going on?
I have no idea. Would be interesting to have her read this post and get her story.
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Old 11-07-2011, 05:53 PM
 
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Skanky home wrecker
Yep
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Old 11-07-2011, 05:57 PM
 
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Doesn't sound like much to go on here. From what you've shared it sounds more like she just feels safe and comfortable opening up with you, and since she's new to the office and finds you approachable she might be somewhat shy at first until she has a chance to get to know other co-workers.
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:02 PM
 
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smh...stop thinking up stuff in your head and terminate those little unnecessary convos ASAP!!! Horn dog! *rolls eyes*
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:16 PM
 
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smh...stop thinking up stuff in your head and terminate those little unnecessary convos ASAP!!! Horn dog! *rolls eyes*
Yup.
Even if she is into you--you can't mess with her.
She knows your married and she's still sending signals.
What a filthy pig she is.
Another sperm burping gutter tramp trying to take what ain't her's.


Horrible.
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Sierra Nevada Land, CA
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I have no idea. Would be interesting to have her read this post and get her story.
Ha, ha!

Maybe I'll also have my wife read this thread.


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Doesn't sound like much to go on here. From what you've shared it sounds more like she just feels safe and comfortable opening up with you, and since she's new to the office and finds you approachable she might be somewhat shy at first until she has a chance to get to know other co-workers.
Ah, yea. Right. Testing the waters, as it were. Like in the copy room.
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:43 PM
 
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she's def flirtatious, however, do you know if she's acting that way around any other ppl? if she is then it's probably just in her nature and she enjoys the attention. however if you're the only guy in the office she's behaving this way with, then she's def sending you some signs.
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