Originally Posted by reed067
So the soon to be ex & I finished the last of our paperwork & went & filed it.
For those of you who have been divoriced how long did you refer to yourself as divoriced? At what point do you call say " I'm single, etc" You can't call youself divoriced forever. Just curious I've seen people maintain call themselves divoriced year's after thier marriage was finished.
It would be weird to me if a guy said: I am divorced instead of I am single.
Divorced is more about your personal HISTORY, not about your current identity. When there is talk about your history, you are divorced. When it's about who you are, it's "single".