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-She couldn't make it, texted me apologizing, moved 2nd date to Thurs
-SHE kissed ME on 2nd date
-Everything in these two dates was great: laughs, chemistry, were both incredible; talked about having a joint bday party in December etc; made plans for Monday (this week)
-Texted her Monday about getting together
-All of a sudden she goes cold, "Cant meet today, have a meeting"
-Haven't heard from her since then (which was Monday); although we are still friends on FB, and she liked my status yesterday, so she hasn't COMPLETELY cut off contact
What the hell? I'm close to giving up on dating completely.
I think you care TOO much. Eventually you will learn.
If that was only your second date you can hardly call that seeing each other. Why are you chasing a girl who shows low interest? That is just desperate.
Wow. Well, I don't know what is going on with she or with you, for that matter, but I can tell you what happened with me.
I was speaking with three men from match. One was about ten years younger than me, the other two near my age but older. The youngest was the most talkative, and we had spoken on the phone as well.
At that point I was trying to narrow it down. There were also others but really, they were just someone to chat w every once in a while... they were in the background. These three were in the up front.
So, I talked to the young man quite a bit on the phone in the evenings and he seemed really nice. Maybe a little too rowdy for me but I was thinking it would be ok. One of the older ones really quiet and the other one I could only talk to in the late evenings due to his job.
One day the young man texts me while I am at work and asks what I am up to. I reply with working, and leave it at that. I had talked to him during my lunchtime the day before, and the evening before we had also spoken on the phone. At this point I had not met any of them.
At the end of the day, which was a very busy day at best, I text the young man. He responds with who is this. Ok, so we both know this means I am off his contact list on his phone, I am erased.
I go home and fire up facebook and we are no longer friends.
He says he thought I didn't want anything to do with him since I didn't carry on a conversation with him while I was at work.
Well, obviously he was not for me. He did, however, jump to some pretty high conclusions because of the way I had answered his text, which was only a very matter of factly answer.
For several months I have been seeing the quiet gentleman and could not be more happy.
I don't know if any of this tells you anything, just my story..
Most guys dont learn how to delete number until they deal with enough women. You were victim of your gender...which is too bad.
I texted her, and she said she needs space and it has nothing to do with not wanting to see me anymore.
ugh, I feel so stupid. I will CERTAINLY not contact her ever again. I will wait for her to do so.
Ha ha ha ha wow man. She meet another man who is giving it to her how she like it. Hey man at least u tried & I hope u learned something about women in this situation, because if u didnt learn anything well....thats not a good look. Just try to catch the next one.
Ha ha ha ha wow man. She meet another man who is giving it to her how she like it. Hey man at least u tried & I hope u learned something about women in this situation, because if u didnt learn anything well....thats not a good look. Just try to catch the next one.
Nah, we got back in touch. Check out the last post on the previous page.
Clearly no one read the last post on the previous page.
She will flake.
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