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Unread 11-11-2011, 07:11 PM
 
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How come women stereotype and many times put a guy in creep status unless he proves himself?

I notice that in America, women act like a guy is a creep unless he has a degree.

I have a degree myself and have noticed that women will force you to prove yourself worthy to be on equal footing with them.

I see this a lot among younger women who will treat a guy like he's nothing until he proves himself with a degree or other assets.

This is the aftermath of post feminism. And it's the aftermath of a unprecedented number of single mother headed households who feel they don't even need a man.



Personally however, as a MAN, I have nothing to prove to any woman. My gender (regardless of race) created all civilizations BRICK BY BRICK and WAR BY WAR.



To be fair, women SHOULD be able to test a man and hold him up to scrutiny. Down through the ages men had to compete with other men to show that he was strong enough and capable enough to be chosen by a woman. Besides sex, that's the power women have in a civilization; they can CHOSE from a pool of men who has access to them (even prostitutes) unless they are overpowered by another civilization.

The thing is, in this day and age, women chose men by how much money and status they have, and that's not so easily obtainable like getting big muscles or hunting down a wild deer.
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Unread 11-11-2011, 10:33 PM
 
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Female chauvinism is rampant in America. I stay away from women at all times. They are nothing but trouble.

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Originally Posted by Black Jack22 View Post
How come women stereotype and many times put a guy in creep status unless he proves himself?

I notice that in America, women act like a guy is a creep unless he has a degree.

I have a degree myself and have noticed that women will force you to prove yourself worthy to be on equal footing with them.

I see this a lot among younger women who will treat a guy like he's nothing until he proves himself with a degree or other assets.
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Unread 11-11-2011, 10:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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....there, that about sums it up. It's not nice to blame others for your problems.
Well thanks a lot for that! I'm sitting in a hotel room, everyone is asleep, I thought I would take a peek at city data, and now I am laughing so hard at your post, I hope I can fall asleep now
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Unread 11-11-2011, 10:44 PM
 
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Bisexual women are much harder on men and more inclined to think of them as creeps.

There is a study about it, somewhere....
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Unread 11-12-2011, 12:44 AM
 
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Degree? it has more to do with looks

An unattratcive man hitting on a women will be called a creep
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Unread 11-12-2011, 01:09 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Weird. The sexiest guy I've met recently was a locksmith.
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Unread 11-12-2011, 01:22 AM
 
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I've seen pot bellied Jabba the hut amorphous pig-faced women call equally hideous men "creeps" just so they could feel good about their loser selves. It's truly farcical.

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Degree? it has more to do with looks

An unattratcive man hitting on a women will be called a creep
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Unread 11-12-2011, 08:00 AM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Degree? it has more to do with looks

An unattratcive man hitting on a women will be called a creep
This college degree thing is also news to me. Perhaps his scene is saturated with raging elitists.
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Unread 11-12-2011, 08:12 AM
 
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A good job yeah, but a degree? no i dont think it matters no one I know cares if the man has a degree or not.
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Unread 11-12-2011, 08:17 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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I've met women who actually DID discount me immediately and even dismissively for the fact that I do not possess a degree...


And I've met women who still dated me, but held over my head the fact that they possessed a degree while I did not...


And I've met women who possessed post-Graduate education and Master's and Doctorates who dated me and didn't give a damn that I do not possess a degree...



To say that "women do this" means a few things:

1. There ARE arrogant women out there, and you've met a couple... MAYBE. We have your word on this and take it in the spirit in which it was meant, but have NO idea what you actually have to offer. Perhaps you have looks and intelligence BUT are horribly unskilled socially, and put women off regardless of what you possess.


2. Different people find different things sexy and attractive. Some are all about the looks, some are all about getting to know someone for who they really are... and some are just happy to find an erect schwanstucker to rough-ride for a few hours and some just want to be left alone.

Get over it.


3. You can WASTE your life worrying over this, or you can get busy being your own man and LIVE, and see what happens. The fact of the matter is that so long as you're bent out of shape over "female unfairness and injustice" your wasting valuable, FINITE time, and more importantly, you're allowing some bad women to DEFINE you and your views.


That last one...

Is that the plan of action for a MAN? Answer yourself on that one, not me.
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