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Old 11-14-2011, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I have hope for you Cassie that you will find some one that really cares about you. If he doesn't but you first he doesn't want you. Move on.
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Old 11-14-2011, 08:22 PM
 
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End it ...sever all ties. Delete phone numbers. Block the 'ex' and focus on something more positive in life.

I would rather be in a relationship where someone respected me enough to be honest and leave than deceitful and manipulative.

He keeps you on the hook because he knows you will forgive him and knows that you want him in your life and can probably tell that you are lonely. You are probably the one woman that will do anything for him.

Don't trade your self-respect and self-esteem for a man of this caliber.
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Old 11-16-2011, 11:04 AM
 
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He took me out for my birthday dinner on Saturday. Of course no gift or card.... We had reservations for 4 pm. We were done at 6 pm. I said, where to now? He said, I'm going home to bed. I said, at 6:15 pm on a Saturday!! I asked if I could come up and after 5 minutes of hesitating- he said "ok". He dropped me at my car (outside of his place) and I re-parked it in a better place. I walk up to his apartment and he's in bed already. It's pitch black in there and I have to ask him to please turn on a light.
He tell's me he is just really tired from work and that I better not try anything on him. He says, just hugging, holding hands and a kiss now and again is all he wants right now and maybe in the New Year - there can be more. You're right Butterscotch....This is ridiculous. Why am I subjecting myself to this crap. I know I'm lonely but have I really let myself get this low?!? He would rather screw a fat, alcoholic midget then even touch me. I feel frozen. Just gotta talk to someone soon..
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Old 11-16-2011, 11:19 AM
 
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He took me out for my birthday dinner on Saturday. Of course no gift or card.... We had reservations for 4 pm. We were done at 6 pm. I said, where to now? He said, I'm going home to bed. I said, at 6:15 pm on a Saturday!! I asked if I could come up and after 5 minutes of hesitating- he said "ok". He dropped me at my car (outside of his place) and I re-parked it in a better place. I walk up to his apartment and he's in bed already. It's pitch black in there and I have to ask him to please turn on a light.
He tell's me he is just really tired from work and that I better not try anything on him. He says, just hugging, holding hands and a kiss now and again is all he wants right now and maybe in the New Year - there can be more. You're right Butterscotch....This is ridiculous. Why am I subjecting myself to this crap. I know I'm lonely but have I really let myself get this low?!? He would rather screw a fat, alcoholic midget then even touch me. I feel frozen. Just gotta talk to someone soon..
This is him:



This is you:



Any questions?
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Old 11-16-2011, 11:20 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Just gotta talk to someone soon..
Pick up the 'phone now and make the appointment.
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Old 11-16-2011, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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This is him:



This is you:



Any questions?

Visuals like this are so priceless
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Old 11-16-2011, 12:38 PM
 
Location: southeast SD
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just an observation here but you 2 have not even done the horizontal mombo yet -- your not out anything-- dump the arse-- move on
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Old 11-16-2011, 01:00 PM
 
Location: Your computer screen.
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He doesn't love you and he doesn't want you.

...he's just afraid you'll come after him with a knife if he tells you your relationship is over.

Follow the advice of everyone else on this thread.
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