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Why is it so hard? because stereo types. Both parties have to fight them. Guys that are looking for a real relationship need to be careful cause so many women that would be compatible for them have dating so many d-bags that they are emotionally screwed up. Girls who are looking for a guy that wants a real long term thing have to be careful for the d-bags with the nice guy persona. Trust me I have dated women 20 years older than me (im 30 btw) and you know what was the hardest part about going up to them and talking to them, knowing my self worth for a relationship or even to be just a fling. Meeting women or men is not a hard thing. It is frustrating because either party (if not both) are head shy because of the person/people/events/relationships before you. If a woman/man behave in an unsavory matter towards you after trying to ask them out, the best thing is this quote: "There are billions of people on this rock, why let one person mess up your time on it."
I mean seriously it does hurt (rejection) but, once you get use to it ......you should know what your worth by then. Never give up in trying to meet someone just don't go overboard and learn from the mistakes.
Try this:
When you go up and talk to a woman and get rejected (if possible) ask her why not you. Ask her what can you do to improve yourself over all that will make yourself more appealing to her or women like her.
You get one life as the person you are now. Learn as much as you can to be the best you, that you can be.
The first part of the paragraph I highlighted is very true. I have always said that it takes one guy to ruin it for the next guy when persuing a woman. Generally this is true. Plenty of women get hurt and emotionally screwed they end up with the same type of guy over and over and stuck in the same cycle of men.
Generally from my observation and experience. When a woman rejects a guy its primarily because she is not physically attracted to him for a series of odd reasons such as too short, too tall, crooked teeth, overweight, skin color, or just odd looking. Sometimes we can not change the way we look and to augment the way we look cost money. is it really worth it, yes for some and for others no. By time we fix or change ourselves to appeal to certain women, is it really worth it to be with them? MY idea has always been if a woman is not into me just move along , tell her goodbye and don't let Karma hit you on your way out, generally for most women they get hit with Karma!
I don't know Las Vegas but try to do different things, online dating may help, don't narrow yourself to Vegas try the nearer states (California for example).
In the US meeting women is easier than Latin America, trust me.
I find that most women either sleep around, are extremely entitled, or both. It's very difficult to meet a woman that is down to earth and also has her stuff together. There are far more men out there like this than women. For every 10 men that are down to earth with their stuff together, there is maybe 1 woman. The competition is fierce and the woman will choose the best looking for the 10 men every time.
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