Why do girls, women, love guys, men with confidence so much? why is confidence the mother of all attraction that girls, (dating, boyfriend)

[Ihatespoiledbrattypeople]

women find in a guy, man? it just really pisses me off, why are girls,women, hard-wired, instinctively programmed to be attracted to guys, men with confidence?
It just really ****in' pisses me off, it just makes me wish I could beat up a girl's boyfriend out of anger, jealousy and frustration

[Huckleberry3911948]

its not just a woman thing. people follow leaders who express much confidence and despise those who express any doubt whatsoever. take a look at the oval office, people adore a confident failure.

[Raena77]

It happens in the work force too. And with men! Some are turned off by shy or boring women.

[Slanderous]

Originally Posted by Ihatespoiledbrattypeople

women find in a guy, man? it just really pisses me off, why are girls,women, hard-wired, instinctively programmed to be attracted to guys, men with confidence?
It just really ****in' pisses me off, it just makes me wish I could beat up a girl's boyfriend out of anger, jealousy and frustration

If these kind of things make you that angry it might not be a bad idea to see a therapist.

A lot of men like women who are confident. I wouldn't want to date anyone who's always mopey.

[MIKEETC]

Originally Posted by Ihatespoiledbrattypeople

women find in a guy, man? it just really pisses me off, why are girls,women, hard-wired, instinctively programmed to be attracted to guys, men with confidence?
It just really ****in' pisses me off, it just makes me wish I could beat up a girl's boyfriend out of anger, jealousy and frustration

As others have already alluded to, people like confident people. Test yourself: name an individual, anyone(!) real or fictional whom you like that lacks confidence. How many names did you come up with? ZERO (even after thinking about it for a while)!!

Next test: name an individual, anyone(!) real or fictional whom you like that has confidence. How many names did you come up with? A lot (and within seconds)!!

[wishy washy people are no fun]

[Percentage]

Originally Posted by Ihatespoiledbrattypeople

women find in a guy, man? it just really pisses me off, why are girls,women, hard-wired, instinctively programmed to be attracted to guys, men with confidence?
It just really ****in' pisses me off, it just makes me wish I could beat up a girl's boyfriend out of anger, jealousy and frustration

how about you grow a pair and start acting confident...instead of trying to "beat up a girl's boyfriend out of anger" aka get you tail kicked

[WakaFlocka]

Confidence is attractive, regardless of who possesses it. A confident, average looking woman will get further in any area of life over a cute, shy and passive girl.

Originally Posted by Raena77

Some are turned off by shy or boring women.

I'm one of them.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by WakaFlocka

Confidence is attractive, regardless of who possesses it. A confident, average looking woman will get further in any area of life over a cute, shy and passive girl.





I'm one of them.

I'm not shy but can be boring due to my moods. I can't entertain all the time.

[JBT1980]

Confidence is a overused cliche word in the attraction/dating game..

Nobody is cofnident all the time,in fact i know some guys who on the insise are pretty insecure but are good looking and have status and do fine with women..

As long as a women is physically attracted to you and you are not a social retard youll do well..

The idea that "confidence" will magically make wimen who arent initially attracted to you become attracted is bs..

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Confidence is a overused cliche word in the attraction/dating game..

Nobody is cofnident all the time,in fact i know some guys who on the insise are pretty insecure but are good looking and have status and do fine with women..

As long as a women is physically attracted to you and you are not a social retard youll do well..

The idea that "confidence" will magically make wimen who arent initially attracted to you become attracted is bs..

Yes there has to be that attraction. If you are attracted to a male or female it helps a bunch.