As some of you know I'm in a LDR with an old friend of mine. We were supposed to try & see each other before the holidays hit, well that didn't happen like we hoped.
We also talked of her coming down here to live in Feb. Some here said we should visit before that happens & I agree. Neither one of us are in the best money situation of late so it's tight for both of us. Last week she asked what if we don't make it? It's an honest question and something you would ask after being hurt before. I tried to comfort her as best as I was able. No one can promise that things will work out like we want them too. While neither one of us are into playing games with the other. Sometimes I get the feeling that she might be holding something back. Maybe out of fear of the unknown I can't be sure. All this might be the holiday's talking I'm not dealing with them so good this year. No family close by just some good friends. I've been told to keep my head up & give it untill Feb, after all it's not that far down the road. For those of you who have been in a LDR, did you set a time to move things to the next level or did you just let things play out on thier own? I really want things to work out for us this time we've had two time's that things didn't pan out.