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3- he did not respect you enough to cover his tracks.
Those are the topics that are red flags to me.
then ...
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Originally Posted by prettybabe
I feel he doesnt respect me either. He normally talks to me harshly and usually blows me off when I'm driving a point across & I'm usually right. we've ended up in unfavorable situations coz he wouldnt listen to me, eg. we moved to a house last month we had no business moving to and ended up moving out last Friday to a house we had no choice and have to move out again after 3 months. last month he invested in an unprofitable business against my advice and made a loss and used the returns to invest in another unprofitable business against my advice. I am doing an MBA and was able to assess the investments. I am a stay at home mom. gave up my career to raise the kids. Will rejoin the workforce once am done with school. Maybe I'll be respected then......
He does not show you any respect.
He talks down to you and is harsh to you.
Then moving into bad housing situations, is a big red flag, more so if you have been advising against each move.
And lastly the investments. Any wise man would seek all the advise he can get before making an investment.
Have you been his sugar-momma in some context? Is he living off your portfolio?
It sounds like he is doing this all to humiliate you, and run you broke.
3- he did not respect you enough to cover his tracks.
Those are the topics that are red flags to me.
then ...
The bolded part is what should be a concern. I'm not really interested in going to "MaidModerator: PG13" so I don't know what the site is all about. It could be that he was required to fill out a form just to gain access to the site and that's all it is. Many sites, even ones that have nothing to do with porn, often have a front page (sign-in page) and you have to sign up just to gain access to the site's content. So, he was curious about a fantasy and had to fill out a form just to see what was on the site. It doesn't necessarily prove intent to cheat.
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Originally Posted by prettybabe
I feel he doesnt respect me either. He normally talks to me harshly and usually blows me off when I'm driving a point across & I'm usually right. we've ended up in unfavorable situations coz he wouldnt listen to me, eg. we moved to a house last month we had no business moving to and ended up moving out last Friday to a house we had no choice and have to move out again after 3 months. last month he invested in an unprofitable business against my advice and made a loss and used the returns to invest in another unprofitable business against my advice. I am doing an MBA and was able to assess the investments. I am a stay at home mom. gave up my career to raise the kids. Will rejoin the workforce once am done with school. Maybe I'll be respected then......
This is why money problems are so big in a marriage. If he has his mind on his money and his money on his mind, and he is failing in his investments, then obviously he isn't going to feel all romantic and will be in a less than happy mood. Seems like he is using porn as an escape for his troubles. Okay under normal circumstances but it can get out of control for some guys who aren't able to compartmentalize it.
Welcome to humanity, where expecting to keep the same interest in one person for the rest of your life is a fairytale. I think you're a little old-fashioned.
I don't think it's old fashioned at all to want respect and faithfulness from your partner in life.....maybe instead of watching porn.... if this man spent as much of his time and energy on making his wife feel wanted and loved...they could/would make their own porn.....I'm in agreement with the other poster that said it may already be too late...if he's looking for hookups, he may have already stepped outside the confines of marriage and fidelity.
So my thread gets shut down for being inappropriate, but this thread about porn can stay.
Interesting.
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