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I know its not easy and much easier said than done. but if a man wants you, he will want to see you any way he can and he isn't doing that. I wouldn't waste anymore time on him. Has he even picked you up and taken you out on an actual date yet?
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You're not dating...you're hanging out. Sorry, but as another poster mentioned, he's just not that into you. Don't take it personally, just move on.
What stood out to me about your situation is that this guy reminds me a lot of myself (even though I'm female). For years I had a favorite bar I liked to hang out in, I was there all the time. I had a lot of friends there, who became like family after awhile. I hooked up with a lot of guys who came through the door. It was a lot of fun. What would be the point of hanging out somewhere else, where I didn't know anybody and didn't feel as comfortable?
But if I met a guy that I truly did like, and did want to start a relationship with, then I would agree to dates outside the bar, like movies or dinner. If I didn't want to get serious, then I would only agree to hanging out at the bar.
In my opinion, this guys thinks you are cute and all that, and likely he just wants to have fun and have a roll in the hay. He doesn't want a relationship. So you can either keep having fun with him, or move on.