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Old 12-01-2011, 01:40 AM
 
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Was at a resort recently in a bikini, when a stranger came up and said "You look like you'll be fun in bed" to me! And he had a wedding ring!

What would compel him to hit on me in that way, when i didnt even approach him.
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Old 12-01-2011, 01:44 AM
 
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your overthinking it...he found you attractive and the fact that he is married means he has very few scruples, and you are probably not the first person he has uttered those words to
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Old 12-01-2011, 01:46 AM
 
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your overthinking it...he found you attractive and the fact that he is married means he has very few scruples, and you are probably not the first person he has uttered those words to
yup ... it was rude and certainly uncalled for, but it says much more about him than it says about her......
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Old 12-01-2011, 01:57 AM
 
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As a matter of interest, are you ?

As rude as it is to say it, I never would anyway !
But, there are certain woman who just have "a way" about them.

My fiancee is one, there's just something totally sexy about pretty much everything she does, even tho she doesn't do it deliberately.

It could be dancing, walking, bending over, or just having a bit of fun. Having a twinkle in their eye.

I guess he figured he's never see you again, so it didn't matter if he offended you. Maybe he'd had a few beers and lost control of his inhibition muscle.

If I were you, I'd take it as a compliment.
Weird, but still a compliment !
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Old 12-01-2011, 02:00 AM
 
Location: Wichita, KS
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You were at a resort. People go there to escape life and just have fun. While drinking and saying those kind of things isn't my idea of fun, it is to many other guys. Simply put...he was being a drunk. And like Bobman said, he knew he most likely wouldn't see you again, so he didn't really care what your reaction would be.
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Old 12-01-2011, 02:25 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Pics please, or it didn't happen
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Old 12-01-2011, 02:58 AM
 
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Aren't you special!
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Old 12-01-2011, 03:02 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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What would compel him to hit on me in that way, when i didnt even approach him.
Alcohol.

I mean, c'mon. You're at a resort where the sexes mingle with the barest of clothing and the booze is flowing freely. Is it that hard to put the pieces together?
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Old 12-01-2011, 03:24 AM
 
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Was at a resort recently in a bikini, when a stranger came up and said "You look like you'll be fun in bed" to me! And he had a wedding ring!

What would compel him to hit on me in that way, when i didnt even approach him.
Cause men are pigs?

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Old 12-01-2011, 06:21 AM
 
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Was at a resort recently in a bikini, when a stranger came up and said "You look like you'll be fun in bed" to me! And he had a wedding ring!

What would compel him to hit on me in that way, when i didnt even approach him.
I'd take it as a compliment and say something like "So I've heard; but you'll never know." Then I'd smile and strut away.
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