Why do married men still feel the need to drool over other women? (cheat, hubby)

[Capt. Dan]

If a woman is so strict outside the home that she wont even tolerate her man checking out a good looking woman, odds are she's a real b*tch inside the home. Probably puts plastic covers on the sofas and chairs. Makes him sit down to pee. Always telling him to take his elbows off the table. Tells him watching sports on TV is a waste of time and makes him watch Martha Stewart. Makes him say please for a piece of a** and thinks a bl*w job is a vacuum cleaner in reverse. I've met women like this. IMO they are just taking up good oxygen that a real woman could be breathing.

[Whyte Byrd]

Originally Posted by Capt. Dan

If a woman is so strict outside the home that she wont even tolerate her man checking out a good looking woman, odds are she's a real b*tch inside the home. Probably puts plastic covers on the sofas and chairs. Makes him sit down to pee. Always telling him to take his elbows off the table. Tells him watching sports on TV is a waste of time and makes him watch Martha Stewart. Makes him say please for a piece of a** and thinks a bl*w job is a vacuum cleaner in reverse. I've met women like this. IMO they are just taking up good oxygen that a real woman could be breathing.

Most of us are realistic enough to know that he's going to look. But how and when he does it separates him from the boys--as opposed to men.

[Ulysses61]

Just because you're married doesn't mean you cease looking at other people! It's a ridiculous premise. You can look all you want, just don't touch and don't leer or drool. How controlling can you get? There's nothing wrong with checking out attractive people, how can you go through life and NOT do this?

And for the OP, you wrote:

have been married 2 times and still dont understand this need that men have to always be looking at other women.

Then you married the wrong men. My husband will glance at a beautiful woman, but all he does is glance. He doesn't leer, drool or disrespect me. I also will look at handsome men, but all I do is look, not pursue or turn around and gape.

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by Capt. Dan

If a woman is so strict outside the home that she wont even tolerate her man checking out a good looking woman, odds are she's a real b*tch inside the home. Probably puts plastic covers on the sofas and chairs. Makes him sit down to pee. Always telling him to take his elbows off the table. Tells him watching sports on TV is a waste of time and makes him watch Martha Stewart. Makes him say please for a piece of a** and thinks a bl*w job is a vacuum cleaner in reverse. I've met women like this. IMO they are just taking up good oxygen that a real woman could be breathing.

Sorry but not true in my case but I have met those types too. Real women are a variety and know what they want. Some as you have mentioned just like to exhibit as much control as they can. But men who constantly check out women are annoying and seem really juvenile. What good is that type doing for the world? Oh yeh..none...just making themselves feel good. So they are just the male version of the control freak with plastic covers. The plastic cover for that male is the" any woman who asks for respect is a *****"

[Charles22]

Just because you are on a diet doesn't mean that you can't look at the menu.

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Opsimathia

Sorry but not true in my case but I have met those types too. Real women are a variety and know what they want. Some as you have mentioned just like to exhibit as much control as they can. But men who constantly check out women are annoying and seem really juvenile. What good is that type doing for the world? Oh yeh..none...just making themselves feel good. So they are just the male version of the control freak with plastic covers. The plastic cover for that male is the" any woman who asks for respect is a *****"

Right on!

[BECLAZONE]

Some Women want a Stallion, but with the mind of a Gelding.

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by BECLAZONE

Some Women want a Stallion, but with the mind of a Gelding.

Oh how men like a tart in the bedroom and a virgin everywhere else?
Hmmm

LOL!

[mkmb]

Originally Posted by BECLAZONE

Some Women want a Stallion, but with the mind of a Gelding.

Mind of a stallion but body of a gelding = the leering sort of man

[RockJock1729]

Originally Posted by Opsimathia

Oh how men like a tart in the bedroom and a virgin everywhere else?
Hmmm

LOL!

Tart...pie...cookies...hell, any sort of dessert is all all right with me!