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Grasshopper, in the four hours you spent on the computer last night you could have gone out somewhere where you could have met people, including real live breathing women with whom you could have chatted.
You don't have any friends of either sex, do you ...
Because I already told you I want a woman who I can introduce to the fetish lifestyle, not some CRUSTY woman who has been doing it for years
TVSG, smothering is a small niche' market, the odds are good most people would be considered "virgins" when it comes to your kink, that being said, members of a fetish site would be more willing to have you teach them a new fetish than someone from a vanilla dating site. If you want to reach your target audience, post in a fetish dating site. Meeting someone from a fetish site would also help you dispel some of the myths you have about the fetish lifestyle.
TVSG, smothering is a small niche' market, the odds are good most people would be considered "virgins" when it comes to your kink, that being said, members of a fetish site would be more willing to have you teach them a new fetish than someone from a vanilla dating site. If you want to reach your target audience, post in a fetish dating site. Meeting someone from a fetish site would also help you dispel some of the myths you have about the fetish lifestyle.
TVSG doesn't really know what he has. "Fetishism" by definition results from an attraction to an inanimate object while this boy's attraction to feet or other bodily parts is better described as "partialism". Of course we wouldn't want to further increase his natural befuddlement by harping on the issue. However, his argument that, if he found the elusive "dating partner" he would no longer need the stimulation of his "fetishes", is totally wrong. But, why worry about it as he's never likely to find out anyway.
Between Plenty of Fish, Okcupid, and Craiglist, what site had led to the most dates for you?
I will have to say that Craiglist is still number in getting dates out of the three. Plenty of Fish and Okcupid is a crap shoot because there are so many people online that it takes longer to get a reply. Caiglist involves no pics and you can get a response a lot faster than on POF or OKC. I believe that POF and OKC should just be for intimate encounters because it's way too many people on there to take it seriously.
Folks, this thread has gotten way off topic. Either discuss the subject matter of the OP or I'll have to close the thread. Thanks!
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TVSG, smothering is a small niche' market, the odds are good most people would be considered "virgins" when it comes to your kink, that being said, members of a fetish site would be more willing to have you teach them a new fetish than someone from a vanilla dating site. If you want to reach your target audience, post in a fetish dating site. Meeting someone from a fetish site would also help you dispel some of the myths you have about the fetish lifestyle.
This is the last time I will say this, I have no interest in woman who is in a intimate encounter category or a fetish site because it's a turn off. I like CLASSY WOMAN who is UNDERCOVER KINKY. I want to find out for myself that a woman has a kinky side over time, not seeing her on a fetish site which lets me know right away she is FREAKY TRASH.
So I stick to regular dating sites like POF, Craiglist, and OKC.
But someone (like yourself) who has not-vanilla sexual proclivities and who searches out people on internet dating sites who will understand and accept that is not automatically FREAKY TRASH. She knows what she wants, and she's trying to ensure sexual compatibility. Your idea that you can turn off what turns you on is going to get you in trouble in the future, if you ever find yourself in a relationship. What happens if your CLASSY WOMAN thinks that what you want in the bedroom is disgusting?
So I stick to regular dating sites like POF, Craiglist, and OKC.
What does it really matter what other people think of them? You might get one date off one while another person gets 20, and all else inbetween. All that matters is what response YOU get. Drop those which don't work for you and keep those which do. In your case and with your record probably best you keep all three and even add a few more but the point is that the success rate of others has no bearing on or relevance to yours. They're all free so we're not exactly talking about trimming the budget. As you like to say, THE END.
But someone (like yourself) who has not-vanilla sexual proclivities and who searches out people on internet dating sites who will understand and accept that is not automatically FREAKY TRASH. She knows what she wants, and she's trying to ensure sexual compatibility. Your idea that you can turn off what turns you on is going to get you in trouble in the future, if you ever find yourself in a relationship. What happens if your CLASSY WOMAN thinks that what you want in the bedroom is disgusting?
There is not a such thing as a regular woman on a fetish site. Actually everyone on that fetish site was ABNORMAL which is why i deleted my membership. The only type of woman on there were dominatrix and woman who are strippers or escorts. why would a regular woman with a normal job who is attractive go on a DIRTY SITE like that?
Do you use some code words in your communications to let these innocent virgins know what you want them to do to you? Or how does this even come up? Are craigslist gals, more open, say, than POF or OKC girls?
How do you exactly broach the issue with one of these nice, professional ladies? And based on your experiences, what do you feel motivates such a woman to engage in a naked, yet entirely sexless encounter with a stranger?
Also I am dying to ask--do these sessions involve any "release" on the part of either parties?
I also wonder if you are more likely to meet such women on a free site vs paid.
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