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Old 12-25-2011, 01:10 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Djuna View Post

I think Crisan summoned it up nicely.

1. Why do men look at porn?

2. Why do men cheat?

3. Why do men abuse?

4. Why do men lie?

5. Why are men lazy?

6. Why are men controlling?

7. Why do men say they'll call when they don't?

8. Why don't men listen?


Sweeping statements? Once again I didn't say ALL women. I knew I was going to be more or less attacked with this thread & that's fine I can take the heat. Look at the post above or the last few weeks of some women coming here bashing men. I think most here are missing the point. A women will come on here & tend to blame some guy for just might be her fault & not see that she has issues of her own. Instead she lashes out at ALL men thinking that we're all the same. Those are the one's I wrote this thread for.
Thank you for the compliment but I don't know what for. I didn't make that list.

This was the idea of my post in this thread. You claim that there are women who complain that all men are bad. Then you say that at least the complaints of men aren't as bad as women.

A fact is something that can be proven. "All men are bad" is not a fact, it is an opinion. I would even go as far to call it an untrue statement instead of an opinion.

"The complaints of men are not as bad as those of women." This is also an opinion. You are arguing an opinion with an opinion and, IMO, not very good ones at that.

Why? Because you are focusing on the negative and trying to win an argument in which you want the other person to admit that they are more negative than you. LOL!

That is not a good way to convince somebody to date you.
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Old 12-25-2011, 02:45 PM
 
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Reed, I know I'm a woman, but I see far more woman-bashing going on in this forum than man-bashing.

Your kidding right?
No way am I kidding. Women-bashers far outnumber the men-bashers here.
I try to pay little attention to either.
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Old 12-25-2011, 03:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Not all women bash men and those who do invariably have been burned by bad guys or cheated upon. You'd think they'd look to themselves if they are consistently being cheated on, treated poorly or dumped. I constantly hear from women, "All men are dogs! They only want one thing! They all cheat!'-- blah, blah. I guess that's their reality and if it, they are choosing the wrong men.

I'm female and MUCH prefer men. I adore men, but probably because I've never been cheated on or gone through a breakup. My husband, my dad and my brothers were all faithful, decent, nice men. My opinion would probably be a lot more negative if had been abused or treated badly by guys.

Therein lies the rub. People tend to go off of their experiences in life, just as you have. That's all I have to say on this topic....
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Old 01-02-2012, 08:25 AM
 
Location: Fairfield, CT
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You guys kidding? Bitter and women are the best combination, like latte and cinnamon. Yum! Merry Christmas, mes freres!

Enjoy the spectacle!
I agree.

"Bashers" are the most entertaining type of woman. A (female) friend of mine has a whole "act" in which she imitates married bashers, who hate their husbands but don't want a divorce because that would mean they'd have to get a job. In her act, these women are actively involved in finding girlfriends for their husbands so they never have to have sex with them. The "profile" of the basher is that she must be either very fat and wear mumus all the time, or ultra-thin. They wear no makeup and wear nothing but sweatpants. In terms of daily activity, they either spend all day on the couch watching trashy TV shows and smoking cigarettes, or they engage in a whole lot of useless, hyper activity.

Some of the scenarios she comes up with are hilarious.
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