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Old 12-27-2011, 03:42 AM
 
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I ve had no luck with western women well American women in particular. I'm just clueless as to what they want. Here I am a nice job , a nice apartment, non violent don't drink too much and I can't seem to land a gal!? I'm the first to admit I'm not exactly Brad Pitt but there are other things in this world besides outward appearances.
Really this last couple dates I had broke the camels back so to speak. A nice dinner (not inexpensive) followed by a movie and some very awkward goodbyes where I was able to get a kiss on the lips from the 2nd date.
But again , no call backs no returned emails or replies to friendship requests on facebook.
I've decided American women are impossible to please. I've been reading up on Thai women and their culture is completely different to ours. From what I''m told via some online acquaintances I would be viewed as quite the catch by Thai standards. I make upwards of 70k , a stable personality, a home, a car etc. It feels right, especially since I've always favored Asian women and their natural tans compared with ginger or fair skinned American gals. Anywho I plan on traveling to Bangkok just after New Years to make some inquiries.
I'll keep you all updated wish me luck!

 
Old 12-27-2011, 03:47 AM
 
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Good luck, I wish you and your new bride all the happiness in the world.
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:04 AM
 
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Reality don't his US women until they hit about 30-35.. They will either be bitter and blame the world on men or they will come to reality that it takes more than their body to keep a man. IMO your problem is you thinking about what a woman wants. Decide what you want in a woman and seek her out. A woman of quality will want a man of quality.. Yes it's that simple.. I should know because I have pushed away quite a few quality women. My problem is I don't ever wan to be married.

Well let me be truthful for a minute. One woman I should have never pushed her away..
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:08 AM
 
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If Asian women are what you are after better off looking in somewhere like Tokyo, Singapore, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Putrajaya. Bangkok has high rates of prostitution and ex-prostitutes and slavery. Not exactly wife material.
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:13 AM
 
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If Asian women are what you are after better off looking in somewhere like Tokyo, Singapore, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Putrajaya, Kuala Lumpur. Bangkok has high rates of prostitution and ex-prostitutes and slavery. Not exactly wife material.
I'm offended by this generalisation.

But I'm not going to bother to argue there's no point.

Russia also has mail order brides, and a culture of subservience to men.
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:17 AM
 
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If Asian women are what you are after better off looking in somewhere like Tokyo, Singapore, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Putrajaya. Bangkok has high rates of prostitution and ex-prostitutes and slavery. Not exactly wife material.
This is truly offensive; a disgusting generalization.
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:22 AM
 
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Not at all....I have been to all those places mentioned, some more than once.
You are missing my point. Which is, Bangkok has the highest rates of prostitution ex prostitutes and slavery, out of the places mentioned. Hence, your pool of potential wives is diminished if thats a dealbreaker.
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:22 AM
 
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I'm offended by this generalisation.

But I'm not going to bother to argue there's no point.

Russia also has mail order brides, and a culture of subservience to men.
This generalization has merit worth considering. Beware. Yes, you can find the exception (I did), but the odds are against you.
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:24 AM
 
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I ve had no luck with western women well American women in particular.
Understood. They're raised to be men and compete in the marketplace. It's not their fault, but that's how it is.
 
Old 12-27-2011, 04:27 AM
 
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Not at all....I have been to all those places mentioned, some more than once.
You are missing my point. Which is, Bangkok has the highest rates of prostitution ex prostitutes and slavery, out of the places mentioned. Hence, your pool of potential wives is diminished if thats a dealbreaker.
Having been to Thailand over 20 times myself, and traveling there again for a month, I don't find the people you obviously seek out.
I know numerous Thai women who are not, nor have ever been, prostitutes.
To generalize as you have done is horribly offensive.

Do you think that abject poverty leads women to paths that they wouldn't take if not for poverty and no other skills?
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