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So today I caught my husband looking at Kama Sutra, different sex positions and things like that on the internet. I of course was a little puzzled at first i passed it off took me a shower after a hard days work and sat down to discuss it with him. His reason for looking at it was because "I want to spice up our love life, and I want a child" Well I am only 20 years old, I am still in college and I want children but not until i graduate.. i haven't told him this yet! Anywho..I want to have sex all the time he doesn't.. he said that he wanted to try different positions i was all for that i told him i wanted him to initiate it this time instead of me he said alrighty we will start it tonight. Well i've been waiting for 4 hours now it is 3 am my time.. His excuse is he was about to pass out after we came home from our friends hes been laying on the couch watching tv since then..
I am so confused, I am all for what he wants but i don't think when i caught him that I was what he wanted..??? advice please
Make sure you always use birth control when you're with him. You do NOT want a child at 20, way too young.
How old is he? If he's your age, 20, and isn't wanting sex all the time, I would say something is not quite right with him.
Nothing wrong with him looking at Kama Sutra on the Internet. In fact he gets props for trying new things!
I agree with you don't worry I am a smart young woman/wife always have contraceptives at hand.
He is 10 years older than me, it works out good I am very mature for my age just a little insecure
lol its just you would think that me being younger with a lot more drive that he would never get bored with me but his doctor told us he has low testosterone and a low thyroid.. I just hope im not doing anything wrong by wanting to be smart and wait to bring a child into this world..
Is he backing off because i don't want a child this soon?
OK I'm slightly wrong. I'm still 29 for like another week, but I'm basically 30.
It's different for every guy, but for me, sex is on the brain all the time. Being single might also add to that, but I even then, I'd probably want sex about everyday.
OK I'm slightly wrong. I'm still 29 for like another week, but I'm basically 30.
It's different for every guy, but for me, sex is on the brain all the time. Being single might also add to that, but I even then, I'd probably want sex about everyday.
I just don't understand why he has to fake a headache, and being sick or being tired
I would rather here honey i just don't have the drive right now than to hear any other excuses it makes me feel so unwanted, unloved and unnattractive..
the doctor asked him was he still attracted to me he said of course, and they they got his test results back.. i know he has a problem and i know i cant be selfish but my goodness. I need a break here I am not ready to be an old woman.
So today I caught my husband looking at Kama Sutra, different sex positions and things like that on the internet. I of course was a little puzzled at first i passed it off took me a shower after a hard days work and sat down to discuss it with him. His reason for looking at it was because "I want to spice up our love life, and I want a child" Well I am only 20 years old, I am still in college and I want children but not until i graduate.. i haven't told him this yet! Anywho..I want to have sex all the time he doesn't.. he said that he wanted to try different positions i was all for that i told him i wanted him to initiate it this time instead of me he said alrighty we will start it tonight. Well i've been waiting for 4 hours now it is 3 am my time.. His excuse is he was about to pass out after we came home from our friends hes been laying on the couch watching tv since then..
I am so confused, I am all for what he wants but i don't think when i caught him that I was what he wanted..??? advice please
How is it 3 am your time when you are writing this? That would mean that you are in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean .
Perhaps he does want to try different positions, however, you can get pregnant using the positions the two of you are using now .
Why haven't you discussed with him that you would like to have children but after you graduate?
I just don't understand why he has to fake a headache, and being sick or being tired
I would rather here honey i just don't have the drive right now than to hear any other excuses it makes me feel so unwanted, unloved and unnattractive..
the doctor asked him was he still attracted to me he said of course, and they they got his test results back.. i know he has a problem and i know i cant be selfish but my goodness. I need a break here I am not ready to be an old woman.
This sounds a lot less like he has problems with you and a lot more like you both have problems with communication. Sit down and have a real conversation with him.
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