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just wanted to get some opinons on something. i'm in a year long relationship. i have met his closest friends. one friend in particular, whom he'll be in his wedding is where my question comes in. his friend's fiance, sends my boyfriend occasional text messages saying his friend wants to see him and invites my boyfriend over for dinner. now mind you, my boyfriend and his friend text and call one another. so i'm finding it a bit weird the fiance is texting asking this on occasion. his friendship and closeness is with his male friend, not really with her. am i totally off in thinking her actions are a bit questionable?
If he is going to be in his wedding, he must be pretty close with him - like best friends ? So why can't he be friends with both of them ?? Perhaps she texts him in front of her fiance, or maybe she likes when they all hang out - it's nice that couples do that ...
Are you jealous, it bothers you, your concerned this girl is engaged, and wants your man ?? What's going through your mind ??
i mentioned his relationship is with the guy and not really with her. why does a grown woman have to text her fiance's friend saying the guy wants to see him and hang out with him, when they my boyfriend and his friend do text, call and hang out with one another. couples that hang out is great but her texts and the reasons for her texts are odd. that's my opinon.
just wanted to get some opinons on something. i'm in a year long relationship. i have met his closest friends. one friend in particular, whom he'll be in his wedding is where my question comes in. his friend's fiance, sends my boyfriend occasional text messages saying his friend wants to see him and invites my boyfriend over for dinner. now mind you, my boyfriend and his friend text and call one another. so i'm finding it a bit weird the fiance is texting asking this on occasion. his friendship and closeness is with his male friend, not really with her. am i totally off in thinking her actions are a bit questionable?
If they're getting married, and he's that close to him, they're probably ALL friends. Which means once they are married, they'll probably have friends over time to time, and he'll be included. I don't see the big deal, but then again, I am friends with my BFF for 35 years now, AND, I am friends with her husband. He is like my brother.
If it bothers you that much, perhaps you should sit down and talk to him instead of asking for advice from strangers who don't know them, the situation, or the closeness in the friendship ... Mindful, if you cause a rift, you won't be going to that wedding ... lol!!!
my bf doesn't know her well. she's a shy woman who doesn't talk much in person, yet has much to say via text i guess. i have too much on my hands to be texting another of my bf's male friends saying should spend time with my bf cuz he wants to spend time with him or invite the friend over for dinner. if my bf is such good friends he'll be contacting him on his own.
just wanted to get some opinons on something. i'm in a year long relationship. i have met his closest friends. one friend in particular, whom he'll be in his wedding is where my question comes in. his friend's fiance, sends my boyfriend occasional text messages saying his friend wants to see him and invites my boyfriend over for dinner. now mind you, my boyfriend and his friend text and call one another. so i'm finding it a bit weird the fiance is texting asking this on occasion. his friendship and closeness is with his male friend, not really with her. am i totally off in thinking her actions are a bit questionable?
Yeah. You are quite a bit off.
You are not the jealous girlfriend type are you???
First of all, this is your boyfriend's friend's soon to be wife. Why would you make this some sort of issue as if they are secretly seeing each other???
Honestly, you are going to destroy this relationship with your actions. You watch!
What's wrong with his friend saying, "Hey hon, can you text my bro and tell him we are running late?"
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