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Old 12-30-2011, 04:03 PM
 
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Talking Why the double standards for men & women?

I have read some posts here and most of the responses and it appears there is a consensus that its ok for men to do certain things and not women, or a woman is percieved less than if she's a more sexually agressive being. A post from a few days ago involving a woman with children from several different fathers, got all types of disparaging remarks made about her, yet I seriously doubt sh got pregnant on her own and it appeared everyone gave the dads a pass. So why is this people?
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Old 12-30-2011, 04:14 PM
 
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I have read some posts here and most of the responses and it appears there is a consensus that its ok for men to do certain things and not women, or a woman is percieved less than if she's a more sexually agressive being. A post from a few days ago involving a woman with children from several different fathers, got all types of disparaging remarks made about her, yet I seriously doubt sh got pregnant on her own and it appeared everyone gave the dads a pass. So why is this people?
Peeing standing up = Men only.
Men approaching women and getting shut down = okay, women approaching men and getting shut down = the man is gay.
Unemployed woman = okay, unemployed man = bum, loser, lazy *****hole etc

Thats all ive got tonight
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Old 12-30-2011, 04:36 PM
 
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When a woman has sex with several different men it's her choice just as it is the mans choice to have more than one sex partner in their lives.

However, when a woman gets pregnant by so many of those partners she is not only a **** but an idiot The woman usually seems to take the brunt of the blame because she failed to use birth control beyond using just and only a condom whereas the man has only the choice of using condom. Getting pregnant by multiple sex partners is more likely her deliberate choice.

So no she, whoever she is, I didn't see that thread, didn't get pregnant on her own but she had all the control to make the choice to get pregnant.
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Old 12-30-2011, 04:45 PM
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Location: San Antonio/Houston
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Peeing standing up = Men only.
Men approaching women and getting shut down = okay, women approaching men and getting shut down = the man is gay.
Unemployed woman = okay, unemployed man = bum, loser, lazy *****hole etc

Thats all ive got tonight

^^^ not sure who is OK with that...
In some circles, maybe.
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Old 12-30-2011, 04:45 PM
 
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dupe.
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Old 12-30-2011, 04:46 PM
 
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I'm all for a woman's sexual freedom, I will defend a woman's right if she does it RESPONSIBLY.

Three children, from 3 fathers, and contemplating doing the same with a 4th guy who is considering leaving her does not meet the requirement.

I'm all for consenting adults to do as they wish as long as it causes no harm to themselves or others.

I can't see how that environment can be good for the children.

They are children, not tic-tacs to be popped when the mood strikes.
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Old 12-30-2011, 04:59 PM
 
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I have to question the sanity of the men sleeping with these women with multiple fathered offspring.
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Old 12-30-2011, 05:01 PM
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^^^ I would think that they are from the same circles. The brainless ones.
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Old 12-30-2011, 05:02 PM
 
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I have to question the sanity of the men sleeping with these women with multiple fathered offspring.
Or vice versa.
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Old 12-30-2011, 05:04 PM
 
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bek of urgency. the one who wants the product the most desperately, pays the highest price.

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