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Old 12-31-2011, 12:48 PM
 
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Yes please! I'm single, and sometimes, a nice casual relationship is the way to go.
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Old 12-31-2011, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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I have too much pride to allow anyone to use me for anything. So yes I would mind...I would not let it come to that though.
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Old 12-31-2011, 06:47 PM
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Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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It's happened to me on more than one occasion. I didn't realize what was going on until we were seeing one another awhile. It gradually dawned on me that I was not much more than a booty call. In one instance I was very disappointed because I really liked her. With the others, it ran its course and it was mutually satisfying.
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Old 12-31-2011, 07:00 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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It was suggested to me that men often have sexual relationships with women they are not really physically attracted to, just because they are horny (and need to get off?). I'm not taking about drunken hookups or one-night stands, but actual relationships.

Do you agree that this is common? Have any of you men ever done that?

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Old 12-31-2011, 07:17 PM
 
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It was suggested to me that men often have sexual relationships with women they are not really physically attracted to, just because they are horny (and need to get off?). I'm not taking about drunken hookups or one-night stands, but actually relationships.

Have any of you men ever done that?
Are you conducting research?

I wouldn't think that most guys intentionally befriend a woman they're not attracted to to have sex with, rather than continuing a relationship they didn't care for only for the sex.

There would have to be something of substance with a woman, whether it be a somewhat likeable personality or a moderate attraction for me to have a sexual relationship. It doesn't mean I would be against a casual relationship, but I couldn't just have a sexual relationship with a woman I don't like or am not attracted to.
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Old 12-31-2011, 07:29 PM
 
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yes. thats the way it should be anyway.
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Old 12-31-2011, 07:30 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Are you conducting research?

I wouldn't think that most guys intentionally befriend a woman they're not attracted to to have sex with, rather than continuing a relationship they didn't care for only for the sex.

There would have to be something of substance with a woman, whether it be a somewhat likeable personality or a moderate attraction for me to have a sexual relationship. It doesn't mean I would be against a casual relationship, but I couldn't just have a sexual relationship with a woman I don't like or am not attracted to.
yes, I'm conducting research for the book I'm going to write about the male and female mind..... someday.... in my dreams. And thanks for answering.

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Old 12-31-2011, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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When I was 20 I had a situation like this and I loved it. We were together for a few months with no emotional feelings. She called it off and I was fine with it. We are still friends twenty years later. To say the least she taught me a lot.
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Old 12-31-2011, 08:31 PM
 
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hell yeah do me anytime unless your freaking ugly.
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Old 12-31-2011, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Is this relationship mutually understood? If so, sure, most guys that say they wouldn't are fooling themselves and the forum.
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