Guys- would you like (men, friends, casual, feeling)

[SRK1]

NO!! I'm not a object or a toy! Give me more or I'm down the road!

[JordanJP]

Originally Posted by srjth

being used by a woman as a sex object and nothing more?

I'm gonna give an answer very contrary to what a woman would expect from my age group.

In 99% of cases I wouldn't be content with this kind of relationship. As much as the fantasy is appealing sometimes, I wouldn't want to be a boy toy for anyone, and besides, the lady would receive more pleasure if I actually liked her.

[Caltovegas]

I think most men wouldn't have a problem with it but at some point the women will say he doesn't respect her when he brings up all the freaky stuff he thinks about that's kept way back in the deepness of his mind.

[Atlguy39]

In a word - YES

[K-Luv]

Originally Posted by srjth

being used by a woman as a sex object and nothing more?

No. Sex is fairly easy to acquire, no need in allowing yourself to be used or objectified.

[dave nz]

yes its my ideal relationship....but unfortunately one or both parties develop feelings for the other.

[srjth]

Wow, I'm fascinated by the variety of answers in this thread!

Originally Posted by Caltovegas

I think most men wouldn't have a problem with it but at some point the women will say he doesn't respect her when he brings up all the freaky stuff he thinks about that's kept way back in the deepness of his mind.

I once heard a guy say that it's a good thing women can't read men's minds otherwise they'd be walking around with guns and knives. Hahahaha

[SVTRay]

Originally Posted by srjth

It was suggested to me that men often have sexual relationships with women they are not really physically attracted to, just because they are horny (and need to get off?). I'm not taking about drunken hookups or one-night stands, but actual relationships.

Do you agree that this is common? Have any of you men ever done that?

That doesn't really fit the bill with me.

I'm married now but I played hard to get in my single days...yes, turned down women and no, I'm the farthest thing from being gay. My sex drive is through the roof but I had/have goals and standards. Now I had sex with different girls when I was younger but it wasn't because I needed to get off. You hang around with someone from the opposite sex long enough and sooner or later something is going to happen.

[HurricaneDC]

Originally Posted by JordanJP

I'm gonna give an answer very contrary to what a woman would expect from my age group.

In 99% of cases I wouldn't be content with this kind of relationship. As much as the fantasy is appealing sometimes, I wouldn't want to be a boy toy for anyone, and besides, the lady would receive more pleasure if I actually liked her.

You're not the only one. Good to see someone else thinks the same way.

[Lamplight]

I'd be okay with it...at least at first. I imagine eventually I'd want more.