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Unread 12-31-2011, 11:45 PM
 
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NO!! I'm not a object or a toy! Give me more or I'm down the road!
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Unread 12-31-2011, 11:57 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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being used by a woman as a sex object and nothing more?
I'm gonna give an answer very contrary to what a woman would expect from my age group.

In 99% of cases I wouldn't be content with this kind of relationship. As much as the fantasy is appealing sometimes, I wouldn't want to be a boy toy for anyone, and besides, the lady would receive more pleasure if I actually liked her.
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Unread 01-01-2012, 12:05 AM
 
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I think most men wouldn't have a problem with it but at some point the women will say he doesn't respect her when he brings up all the freaky stuff he thinks about that's kept way back in the deepness of his mind.
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Unread 01-01-2012, 12:13 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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In a word - YES
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Unread 01-01-2012, 01:20 AM
 
Location: Maryland not Murlin
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being used by a woman as a sex object and nothing more?
No. Sex is fairly easy to acquire, no need in allowing yourself to be used or objectified.
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Unread 01-01-2012, 01:25 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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yes its my ideal relationship....but unfortunately one or both parties develop feelings for the other.
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Unread 01-01-2012, 01:42 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Wow, I'm fascinated by the variety of answers in this thread!

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I think most men wouldn't have a problem with it but at some point the women will say he doesn't respect her when he brings up all the freaky stuff he thinks about that's kept way back in the deepness of his mind.
I once heard a guy say that it's a good thing women can't read men's minds otherwise they'd be walking around with guns and knives. Hahahaha
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Unread 01-01-2012, 02:18 AM
 
Location: Midland/Dallas
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It was suggested to me that men often have sexual relationships with women they are not really physically attracted to, just because they are horny (and need to get off?). I'm not taking about drunken hookups or one-night stands, but actual relationships.

Do you agree that this is common? Have any of you men ever done that?
That doesn't really fit the bill with me.

I'm married now but I played hard to get in my single days...yes, turned down women and no, I'm the farthest thing from being gay. My sex drive is through the roof but I had/have goals and standards. Now I had sex with different girls when I was younger but it wasn't because I needed to get off. You hang around with someone from the opposite sex long enough and sooner or later something is going to happen.
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Unread 01-01-2012, 08:53 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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I'm gonna give an answer very contrary to what a woman would expect from my age group.

In 99% of cases I wouldn't be content with this kind of relationship. As much as the fantasy is appealing sometimes, I wouldn't want to be a boy toy for anyone, and besides, the lady would receive more pleasure if I actually liked her.
You're not the only one. Good to see someone else thinks the same way.
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Unread 01-01-2012, 10:44 AM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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I'd be okay with it...at least at first. I imagine eventually I'd want more.
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