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Old 01-06-2012, 02:36 PM
 
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Well - I think there is a difference between wanting to have a penis inside of you or having a finger. Sorry to be so graphic - but I think there is a difference. The one guy that I knew that really liked anal penetration was bi - but mostly straight.
Even a finger sounds gay.

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I'm too dumb this crap.

I think I missed the memo. Anal penetration here means the male gets it
I thought she was getting it too at first, which is still something I find to be a perversion.
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Old 01-06-2012, 02:37 PM
 
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I'm too dumb for this crap.

I think I missed the memo. Anal penetration here means the male gets it
Yes, in this relationship apparently the OP performs a prostate check on her significant other who is a male.
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Old 01-06-2012, 02:39 PM
 
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I don't even want to think about HOW she's performing this anal penetration on him. *facepalm*
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Old 01-06-2012, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I read in the news somebody stole a mannequin hand somewhere LMAO
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Old 01-06-2012, 03:42 PM
 
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no no, you didn't offend me at all, the point I was trying to make is, your looking for reasons why he's like that, and why he treats you as he does? Just move on, and stop trying to figure him out....

I'm not saying this to hurt you, but from experience....after a failed marriage, I kept trying to understand for years, why he treated me like he did, why he acted like he did, and never did the answers come, however, when I started a personal evaluation, and tried to figure out, why I chose a man so dysfunctional...well, then the answers started comeing....does that make sense?
It does make sense thanks.
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Old 01-06-2012, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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I read in the news somebody stole a mannequin hand somewhere LMAO
They released a sketch of it. Is this the one?!

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Old 01-06-2012, 03:54 PM
 
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Oh, I was also wondering why he is divorced? I mean, triplets is a big deal so there must have been a compelling reason either on his part or his ex-wife's...just curious if it has any bearing on the current relationship...
He said they got divorced because they grew apart after the triplets. They forgot about their relationship and went to counseling to try to save it but it didn't work.
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Old 01-06-2012, 04:50 PM
 
Location: Florida
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I'd say he is bi...and has other encounters during the week. If he has the trips on the weekend, you are a helper and a front.

Just my 2 cents, take what you want and leave the rest.
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Old 01-06-2012, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
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I'm too dumb for this crap.

I think I missed the memo. Anal penetration here means the male gets it

LMAO!!! You're not the ONLY "sheltered" one here. I'm finding myself thinking, "FIND A HAPPY PLACE, FIND A HAPPY PLACE!!" I'm feeling like I need to cover my eyes. If this conversation were audible, I'd want to cover my ears and blush!!
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Old 01-07-2012, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Texas
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He said they got divorced because they grew apart after the triplets. They forgot about their relationship and went to counseling to try to save it but it didn't work.
You know, for all this weird stuff that you've explained, and I do think it's kind of weird, he may be a fairly nice guy. But I also think that there are too many things to overcome to ever be truly comfortable in the relationship. This very well may be cliche, but if you have to work too hard, then I don't think this is the right relationship for you.''

I'm not saying there won't be struggles along the way, but if you're starting out with weird kinks that can be construed as bi/gay, are you ready for that? Are you ready for someone who may not be able to come to terms with his real feelings? I know this is a huge presumption, but it may be something to consider. Also, not contacting you throughout the week just plain blows. I like that little nervous feeling I get when I see my husband's number on my phone...ooh, he's calling me...sweet.

Just a thought...hang in there...I'm interested to see what you decide... and hope you're happy with your decision.
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