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Old 01-08-2012, 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted by vetterbetter View Post
i care for a person, but found out she has std, and i am having a hard time with now knowing this and would you continue with the relationship? I understand you can't die from this, but it's still something I don't want to have on my body.... just a tough situation , just asking for any "good" advice...
If you are having a hard time, it's because you don't like her that much. Or "unconditionally". Just move on. There's still time.
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Old 01-08-2012, 09:38 PM
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There's a difference between getting an STD because your SO cheated, and getting an STD through casual sex. If it's the former, I can sympathize. If it's the latter, then no sympathy from me whatsoever.

I don't necessarily disagree with AC's reluctance to get into a relationship with someone that has an incurable STD. Herpes isn't exactly a minor STD. There's a difference between a sore on your mouth and one on your junk. The first isn't painful, it's annoying at worst. The latter is most certainly painful. But, what I do have a problem with is his houlier than thou attitude. STDs do not discriminate. Educated, rich, and intelligent people get them just as much as uneducated, poor, and unintelligent people.
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Old 05-10-2012, 08:29 PM
Location: Sorrento
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Had herpes since I was 18, don't put it with HIV, def not the same thing. And it def won't kill you. It's just a little bit of a nuisance once in a while.
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