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If a girl only wants to hang out w you when alcohol is involved, does that mean she is only interested in you sexually?
Basically, this is the scenario:
-Drunk girl at bar all over me (2 weekends ago)
-Gives me her number; tells me we should get dinner
-I text her last Monday about dinner, she says, "uhh haha, just us two? I'm seeing someone right now, and I'm not sure that would go over well. I'm so sorry! "
-I drop it
-This week I text her some flirty/sexual things
-She eats it up; asks me what Im doing this weekend
-I suggest we get drinks, she says "That would be nice! I'm back in your city on X date"
So, she doesn't want to hang out over dinner, but she does over drinks.
She wants to just hook up, and not date? Am I reading this correctly?
She tells you she's seeing someone, you then proceed to text her "flirty/sexual things," and she says she'll meet you for drinks.
I would say this is a case where lying down with dogs means waking up with fleas, but I can't decide who the bigger dog in this situation is.
Yes, fleas could mean the following:
One fellow I dated said this girl was just after him to go out. When they went out she was all over him. They hook up. Later on she spreads a rumor that guy I dated got her pregnant.
After a lot of drama and nonsense the girl admitted that when she went out with him, she was already pregnant about six weeks, she had told the father and the father rejected her and the baby. So she thought she'd go and find a nice guy and accuse him of getting her pregnant. Him, being a nice guy would just go along with it the whole thing and her problems would be over.
Moral: Watch the fleas, the bites can be pretty bad.
Im wondering if her "Im seeing someone right now" was her way of saying "No, I don't want to get dinner, but I do want to hook up with you over drinks"
If a girl only wants to hang out w you when alcohol is involved, does that mean she is only interested in you sexually?
Basically, this is the scenario:
-Drunk girl at bar all over me (2 weekends ago)
-Gives me her number; tells me we should get dinner
-I text her last Monday about dinner, she says, "uhh haha, just us two? I'm seeing someone right now, and I'm not sure that would go over well. I'm so sorry! "
-I drop it
-This week I text her some flirty/sexual things
-She eats it up; asks me what Im doing this weekend
-I suggest we get drinks, she says "That would be nice! I'm back in your city on X date"
So, she doesn't want to hang out over dinner, but she does over drinks.
She wants to just hook up, and not date? Am I reading this correctly?
My plan is to go tot he bar with my boys, and give her a text telling her to come join. That way, she won't feel the pressure of 1-1 meet up.
Good idea, or should I go for the 1-1 meet up instead?
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