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Old 01-10-2012, 09:34 AM
 
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... from people he knows have the "hots" for him.

ie he's basically being sexually harassed at work by a coworker and he tells you he wants it to stop but he encouraged it and played along in the beginning

has had sex with pretty much all his "close" friends and will knowingly hug people he knows only want sex with him.

Would you continue with someone like that?

Attention whor3 much...
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Old 01-10-2012, 09:38 AM
 
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Probably not if it went on for long.
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Old 01-10-2012, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Gone
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No... Cannot take them serious. Players are players and happy in action but not with me Some people I really like very much but they are... Just for fun . Maybe if he would marry me first and I would lock him to my room *Laughs*
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Old 01-10-2012, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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It might be innocent. Some people just like to know that they are wanted...It might boost his self-esteem. And frankly, there's nothing wrong with that. Now on the other hand if he cheats, you have to get rid of him..I say this because some people can't help it that other people like them. Some people are just that good looking. Is it there fault that others like them? However, if they are misleading other people and acting interested themselves, then yeah, that's not good...But you can't let that bother you. If someone has alot of people liking them, it's because they are good looking or very cool/nice whatever..It could be hard on someone who is insecure. Heck, it could be hard on someone who is even secure sometimes..As long as the man or women doesn't lead others on, there's nothing you can really do. You can't hate them for being liked. However, if this person intentionally leads people on to make their significant other jealous then yes, he or she isn't worth it..

From my own observations in life. It seemed to me that women seem to like the guy that everyone wants. I can't explain it. I don't know why. You would think that would deter them if they knew everyone wanted them...Maybe it's a self esteem boost for the other. If you can get someone that everyone wants then that would make you feel special.
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Old 01-10-2012, 12:52 PM
 
Location: Rockwall
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I sometimes find that people who need/want attention like this are often incapable of showing sincere interest/care/concern for others. Mememememe they are.

Not always.....
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Old 01-10-2012, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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No way. People like that are bottomless pits, they can never get enough attention to feed their insecurity and ego.
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Old 01-10-2012, 02:06 PM
 
Location: USA
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Sounds like he is one of those super attractive guys that all women want, even if it's just once. My cousin who looks a lot like a young John Stamous used to have that affect on women. I used to be jealous but not so much anymore.

Sounds like you know he is a dog and you want him any way. Many women love the Bad Boy and will drop their pants for him in a snap, but never admit it publicly. They know he's not the long term type.
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Old 01-10-2012, 02:43 PM
 
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Red flag/possible crazy.
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Old 01-10-2012, 05:15 PM
 
Location: PA
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There's one thing if someone has a lot of friends of the opposite sex, or gets along with people they dated in the past. What you described here sounds like game-playing. I couldn't deal with a guy whose interactions, aside those with family members, seemed contingent on whether or not he could get into the other person's pants. No way.
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Old 01-10-2012, 05:17 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Nah, I wouldn't waste my time if I had to go on a date with them. Maybe a one night stand from a bar, but I wouldn't even bother with taking a person like that to dinner.
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