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Originally Posted by Workaholic?
Wouldn't you wonder why they chose such bad people and wonder if his/her standards were low?
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I might wonder and if the guy is really bad (like drug addict, in jail, etc.) I might ask why she was with him. Even then she chose me (and I'm pretty awesome) and I must have had good reasons to choose her.
People grow up, reexamine their lives, preferences, etc. and learn from mistakes. There have been countless posts on here complaining about girls going for bad boys, jerks and whatever else. If we're going to complain about this, we should at least acknowledge when people are willing to see their flaws and try something new.
My girlfriend and I both have had "meh" exes we dated for over a year. I won't judge her for past mistakes that she doesn't make anymore and I trust her not to judge me for my mistakes.