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Old 01-12-2012, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Grosse Ile Michigan
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It really depends ont he day and how we feel. It could be anywhere from 30 seconds after waking up to several hours.

 
Old 01-12-2012, 09:55 AM
 
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To be honest, she and I waited two months, which was completely atypical of me in my dating life. She actually was ready earlier than that and dropped rather broad hints. But I knew that I had met someone really special, and wanted to make sure everything was emotionally right before taking the next step. Glad I took the extra time, too.
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:00 AM
 
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You can tell by the tone of the OP's posts that she is not concerned about school or being mature enough. There has been plenty of good advice posted regarding that, she is about playing the game and making guys squirm because she is young and she knows she is hot. Guys are horny, that does not make them dogs, there are plenty of smart guys that LOVE sex (myself included ). I will say it again, a smart alpha male will not put up with that behavior.

Now if your posts read more like, hey im 18 and want to finish college and join the peace corps and cant have a relationship muddling things up due to focus on school and life then this would have become a whole different discussion (heck thats what I did when I was 18 and going to engineering school), but what you are really up to is to go into social settings and tease guys, your social circle will catch on pretty quick and the guys that dont .... not alpha males. I seen this in my fraternity in college, these same women would come for the parties and free beer and expected us to set everything up and they never put out, after about one party I just went and did homework and found women online and did not help clean up, I did not go for the smokin hot young woman because the women that were 6's were freaks in the sheets and dident play games.

I see women like you out and about in the summer months where I live and my wife is like omg do you think she is hot, and I say sure but she probably does not put her tongue where you do lol. The fact that I can say that to my wife and she giggles is a testimate unto itself. I could not imagine the games and prudery involved with a woman that is an 8-10, even the 7's are a little suspect. I have friends that are struggling and I always tell them the holy grail is with women who are 6's becasue all the dumb dumbs are slitting each others throats over the 8's through 10's. The 7's are kind of a grey area, 7's that think they are 10's have likely gotten burned trying to play the game the OP wants to play but you never know. 6's dont play that game at all.

Once you have a little experience you will be able to weed out the creeps and wierdos and go for the good guys, but the good guys are not going to tolerate BS. If you are too busy messing with guys your credibility will go down the toilet and no one will want to date you.

Im not saying you should sleep with every creep and wierdo, you have to learn who the good guys are and once you recognize them you cant f it up playing high school games, once your out of hs that stuff abruptly ends because the guys dont like that game lol.
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:25 AM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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I'm not a college girl type and not a prude. I don't know if I'm going to stay here and work in the casinos or become a lawyer. So yea I'm not going to talk about school much I'm not actually decided. I really think I don't even care about the whole alpha male deal. What I care about is independence virtuousness compatibility and attractiveness. If a guy sleeps around too much I don't want him. I didn't want around to give it to a *****. I am pretty sexually opened and wild but I wouldn't implement it on anyone. I just have standards but not a prude. But what does what you're saying have to do with me? Btw if I were a 6 I'd act the same way. Low self esteem isn't based on looks. I'm not that vain. Probably how I was raised. My mom never had bfs around or anything. Plus if I were religious I'd wait for marriage... Also being 18 and all I'm not the type to want to deal with pregnancy in teens or early 20's. So yeah....
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Originally Posted by kitgirl11 View Post
yea what's so wrong about a photo of me?

if that is slim I'll wait til the slim chance comes my way. I am not old I have time.
There is nothing wrong with that photo. Other than you damn near poked my eye out when I opened it!!
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:28 AM
 
Location: North America
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I'm not a college girl type and not a prude. I don't know if I'm going to stay here and work in the casinos or become a lawyer. So yea I'm not going to talk about school much I'm not actually decided. I really think I don't even care about the whole alpha male deal. What I care about is independence virtuousness compatibility and attractiveness. If a guy sleeps around too much I don't want him. I didn't want around to give it to a *****. I am pretty sexually opened and wild but I wouldn't implement it on anyone. I just have standards but not a prude. But what does what you're saying have to do with me? Btw if I were a 6 I'd act the same way. Low self esteem isn't based on looks. I'm not that vain. Probably how I was raised. My mom never had bfs around or anything. Plus if I were religious I'd wait for marriage... Also being 18 and all I'm not the type to want to deal with pregnancy in teens or early 20's. So yeah....

How can you be sexually open and wild if you are a virgin ?
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:35 AM
 
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I'm pretty young right now plus socially less than average because of years of isolation. So I don't really plan on dating seriously until I'm probably like 19 or 20. At that point I always thought the appropriate approach would be to wait 6 months to weed out all the bad eggs. Those just interested in sex and also I want to have my first time to be with someone I'm going to marry and has proven he's not just interested in getting physically but likes me for me. Plus I know not most guys would wait 6 months which I don't want to be easy to get in bed. At this point I don't have any need for sex so doing it would have to be for a guy I actually liked as a person. Also I don't want to be a statistic that gets an std by 25. So what's the average time period?? Advice? Is this a long period?
As you didn't mention your age it sounds like your under 18 your question may be best answered by an adult family member. Just ask the FEMALE family member to be honest with you as much as they can.. relationships are complicated.
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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unmarried? 3 dates for the young, 1 month for older.
married? after 2 years, never.
LMAO....So true
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:37 AM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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sexual desires etc.. I'm pretty much open sexually with the right person. Like I would do it with anyone. But yea I'm a wild type but with a self esteem.
 
Old 01-12-2012, 10:39 AM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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nope I'm 18.


and that's hilarious lol.
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