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One of the people who picked on me a lot in middle school and high school was prominent football and hockey player.
i graduated fifteen years ago. i was on a gay chat sight and he was on there. i found out that he is bisexual.
in high school him and another guy on the football team would pick on me a lot. looking back, much of it was kind of sexual in nature.
he would hold me in a bear hug while his friend would slap me and taunt me and stuff. one time they did this for like a half hour. he would always want me to try and struggle and get off on the fact that i couldn't break his grip around me.
i remember thinking it was weird because i could feel he was 'hard' when he did this. and he would call me 'pretty boy' and stuff.
he used to pull my hair a lot, dump my books etc. and whistle at me when i was in the locker room changing and stuff. these are all things that some straight guys do to girls that they like when they are immature.
i found out that he thought i was hot, and that's why he did those things. he didn't even fully know it at the time because he was not out to 'himself' at that time.
One of my so-called friends in HS was a bully to me as well. Years later I heard she finally came out the closet.
IDK why she was so mean to me in particular, but I'm sure it had something to do with her not being happy about her situation (basically not being able to be herself).
well i am gay. i wasn't out in high school either, which makes it more weird. people from my high school said afterwards that there was a rumor that i was gay floating around though
Last edited by Keeper; 01-12-2012 at 03:27 PM..
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true. i just think it's weird that you would bully someone because you're attracted to them. that makes NO SENSE.
It does make sense... it allows the bully to get attention from you without exposing their true feelings and becoming vulnerable. That doesn't make bullying okay but you have to realize that people like this don't know how to deal with their feelings in a healthy way.
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Yeah he was probably taking out his frustration/while at the same time masking his own attractions with bullying. Maybe he was a bit attracted to you and that was his way of expressing it.
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