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Let me start by saying that only you can decide this for yourself. No one else's opinion counts here.
Liking transgendered people is not uncommon. As a matter of fact it can be a type of fetish. Only you can decide if it is just a fetish in the sense that you just like watching transgendered people or if you really want to be with a transgendered person and more importantly how you feel about that. Are you only interested in male to female transgendered persons or female to male or both?
Do you feel that once someone is transgendered that take on the gender that they transfered to? Where you stand with your views on transgendered persons I think will be the deciding factor in how you ultimately identify yourself.
First, paragraphs. Use them. They are your friends.
I will take your posting at face value, although I suspect a bit of troll here.
You sound like you have sexual issues. Between this one and the other thread, you state that you are a virgin, don't need to have sex, want to wait for many months before having sex with a guy, have threesome fantasies, speak approvingly of anal/oral/hand sex, but are frightened of vaginal sex. You claim oral is not sex, which I suspect is a way for you to interact physically with women and still cling to your virginity.
My guess is that you are probably predominantly lesbian, which is why you are so ambivalent about having sex with men. The threesomes seem to enable you to fantasize about women.
But all of this angst on your part is a bit odd. I guess you could go ahead and start sexually experimenting with people and see where it leads. That tends to answer people's sexual questions pretty quickly, as they discover what they do and do not like.
Therapy is an option I guess, but sooner or later interaction in the real world is going to have to happen.
I think she needs to read the "Hitachi" thread and just take care of her own needs for now. She seems to be very confused.
I think she needs to read the "Hitachi" thread and just take care of her own needs for now. She seems to be very confused.
Agreed. Her actual sexual orientation is less important than the fact that she is probably not yet prepared to interact with people in a sexual manner.
But she is thinking about it, otherwise she would not be posting on the forum in the way that she does.
I would suggest more non-sexual social interaction, developing a few close friends with whom she can discuss these topics. Any dating should be very casual.
nope I'm not a troll look at my photo it's connected to photobucket which is connected to my phone.
I don't have oral sex with girls or guys. I'm actually more interested in it with a guy. I like thresomes with guys a lot more though. But I like 2w1m thresomes too. I actually like sexual acts with guys involved. It's just the whole virginity deal it's obviously not pleasureable for a woman until she's no longer a virgin. I don't plan to even have a thresome. Like I like guys to make out it's just something I like to see. Nothing I ever plan or can do.
I just wanted a general idea what others may think I guess. I've experimented kind of with my ex-gf and all....
nope I'm not a troll look at my photo it's connected to photobucket which is connected to my phone.
I don't have oral sex with girls or guys. I'm actually more interested in it with a guy. I like thresomes with guys a lot more though. But I like 2w1m thresomes too. I actually like sexual acts with guys involved. It's just the whole virginity deal it's obviously not pleasureable for a woman until she's no longer a virgin. I don't plan to even have a thresome. Like I like guys to make out it's just something I like to see. Nothing I ever plan or can do.
I just wanted a general idea what others may think I guess. I've experimented kind of with my ex-gf and all....
If you enjoy being with girls on a sexual or near sexual basis then you are bi sexual. You might lean in one direction or the other, but in general you are bi.
Here you are not into monogamy, on the other thread you will wait until a guy proves that he doesn't just want you for sex before you lose your virginity.
nope I'm not a troll look at my photo it's connected to photobucket which is connected to my phone.
I don't have oral sex with girls or guys. I'm actually more interested in it with a guy. I like thresomes with guys a lot more though. But I like 2w1m thresomes too. I actually like sexual acts with guys involved. It's just the whole virginity deal it's obviously not pleasureable for a woman until she's no longer a virgin. I don't plan to even have a thresome. Like I like guys to make out it's just something I like to see. Nothing I ever plan or can do.
I just wanted a general idea what others may think I guess. I've experimented kind of with my ex-gf and all....
Most trolls don't even know they are trolls. Just a little FYI.
Interesting pic good luck with that.
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