Now I'm hesitant to (girlfriend, men, attracted, American)
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educated black women will probably tend to date white guys from what i have seen especially since so many black guys end up in jail or drop out of school all together. I met a cute black chick the other night. She was in her early 30s and never married and no kids either, i was shocked. She told me she turned down marriage because she wanted to focus on her career. Then we started to talk about race, shes straight op aa and i'm a guyanese guy that looks and sounds rican. Then she asked me about faith and that was tough to answer. I notice black women do love a lot of jesus especially being southern heritage. She was to religious for me though but gosh i wish i can glaze her baptist backside.
that is definitely true, my wife is african and I can tell you she is deep into religion, although I'm an atheist, and sometimes it leads to a little scuffle. Those type of things (religion) takes so much part in people's life that you better think twice before dating a nun type girl.
I'm ok with religious chick as long as it don't interfere negatively on the sexual aspect of the relationship.
Dating interracially is probably more common than ever and in NYC probably more common than anywhere else in the U.S.
But it is certainly not the norm, nor will it be for a LONG time to come.
Many whites will not date blacks and vice versa. That's just the way it is. The usual reason is that there is no attraction.
But to the original poster, odds are good that if a woman is attracted to you, she will probably date you.
I agree with this to a degree. I think social status plays a HUGE part in this.
Now I'm wondering how common is this? I have no problem with a woman rejecting me because she isn't attracted to me, but for a woman to be attracted to me but not date me because she is ashamed to be seen with me...
I plan on moving to Nyc and was looking forward to dating (though I've never dated outside my race, I'm not against it), but now this has me a little shaken, about approaching a woman outside of my race.
I especailly hear that Asian, Indians, and Latina's aren't into dating blacks. More so asian and indians. I was just curious since this is a anonymous forum, you can say how you truely feel and no one will ever know.
PS. I've also heard that Nyc isn't as intergrated as many people think... again I don't know
In the case of Latinas, since especially in NYC many are black (PR, Dominican, Panama), you shouldn't have any problem. I come from an African American dad/Latina mom marriage. That notion about NYC not being as integrated as some think is dead on.........
Surely it should not be a surprise to you that many people hesitate dating someone outside their own racial/ethnic/religious category? I can't believe that you're posting this as though the thought never crossed your mind, that you'd never heard of any such thing.
It's not a surprise.......it's just not understandable.
most asians ethnic groups marrying / dating a black person is a tabboo, they just dont find it acceptable, unless you want to be disowned from the family
Now I'm wondering how common is this? I have no problem with a woman rejecting me because she isn't attracted to me, but for a woman to be attracted to me but not date me because she is ashamed to be seen with me...
I plan on moving to Nyc and was looking forward to dating (though I've never dated outside my race, I'm not against it), but now this has me a little shaken, about approaching a woman outside of my race.
I especailly hear that Asian, Indians, and Latina's aren't into dating blacks. More so asian and indians. I was just curious since this is a anonymous forum, you can say how you truely feel and no one will ever know.
PS. I've also heard that Nyc isn't as intergrated as many people think... again I don't know
yahoo answers is a horrible source for information, I wouldnt put too much stock into this
It's not a surprise.......it's just not understandable.
THANK YOU! That was my point, I just can't understand this. Like I said, I have no problem with someone not wanting me because they don't find me or my personality attractive, but for someone to be attracted to me but at the same time be secretly ashamed to be seen publicly with me!?!?
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