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Old 01-14-2012, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Utah
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If this is true, than what you really mean is that you're not really attractive so you had to settle with a man who could not give you much simply because you could not command a higher caliber man.


I know that sounds mean but this is the how the world works that nobody wants to admit.
WHOA!

I was on board until you made that comment!

What works for her and her husband works for them.

Not everyone is a hollow shell and made to settle for less!

That was just a cruel and low blow comment.

 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:43 PM
 
Location: hunt valley
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The only men who have the problem of beating off Amercian women are celebrities and rich athletes; other then that, the average male in America is IGNORED by Amercian women unless she NEEDS something.
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Originally Posted by calicali01 View Post
If this is true, than what you really mean is that you're not really attractive so you had to settle with a man who could not give you much simply because you could not command a higher caliber man.


I know that sounds mean but this is the how the world works that nobody wants to admit.
Um... no. But thanks for playing!
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:44 PM
 
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Actually - the only western men that I've seen with this problem are the ones who post here. In my real life in the outside world - all my male friends are pretty happy guys. Most of them are married or in good relationships. Thousands? More like a handful - and they all found City Data!!!
America is a FAKE society where the real society is underground and on the internet where people can be truthful because it's anonymous and won't effect their careers or public image (i.e, the happy family man is a good image to sell).

In America people smile and fake that they are happy to not appear weak or doing worse then their peers who they know will gladly kick them even more when they are down and out.
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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America is a FAKE society where the real society is underground and on the internet where people can be truthful because it's anonymous and won't effect their careers or public image (i.e, the happy family man is a good image to sell).

In America people smile and fake that they are happy to not appear weak or doing worse then their peers who they know will gladly kick them even more when they are down and out.
No, people in USA are generally pretty happy and the people who are unhappy in a world with the highest standard of living are making themselves unhappy by trying to find everything negative about their life.

The "underground internet world" is a bunch of unhappy losers who just want to ***** about how their problems are everyone else's fault because they are too lazy/weak to fix their own lives.
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:50 PM
 
Location: hunt valley
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Wrong! Because there are thousands of Western men with the SAME problem which points to the problem not being with them, but American society.
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Of course there are...but those thousands are dwarfed by the multiple millions who DO find women. So it's funny how most people do, but the small subsection that can't blames it on the opposite sex.
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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America is a FAKE society where the real society is underground and on the internet where people can be truthful because it's anonymous and won't effect their careers or public image (i.e, the happy family man is a good image to sell).

In America people smile and fake that they are happy to not appear weak or doing worse then their peers who they know will gladly kick them even more when they are down and out.
Taking notes diligently
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:51 PM
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Calical, you sound very unhappy and in pain. I hope you know that there are different, better ways to live.
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:51 PM
 
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Oh nonsense. Pathetic men in many counties buy themselves a foreign wife. It has nothing to o with American culture and everything to do with the lack of social skills an other desirable attributes or lack thereof, of the man.

Again, why is a man 'pathetic' simply because he wants to shop around somewhere else?

Oh, I know why! It's because you girls are angry that men can skip town and find happiness and unlimited sex somewhere else.

We don't have to put up with women who don't want to put out and use sex as a weapon.
 
Old 01-14-2012, 05:51 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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If this is true, than what you really mean is that you're not really attractive so you had to settle with a man who could not give you much simply because you could not command a higher caliber man.


I know that sounds mean but this is the how the world works that nobody wants to admit.
Lol, to be fair dewdrop93 is a nice looking women. I think she was the one beating the men off with sticks.
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