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Old 01-16-2012, 10:45 PM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston
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Yes, but if he decide not to go, he would be wondering and pondering. At least going there and being on time will give him a peace...
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Old 01-16-2012, 11:10 PM
 
Location: Wichita, KS
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Yeah, chances are she has changed her mind and either found someone different or just lost interest for some reason. If the location isn't too far out of your way, then you might as well go. If it is a long drive, then personally I wouldn't waste your time.
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Old 01-17-2012, 12:00 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Maybe she thinks since you guys already set up the date, she wouldn't need to hurry to reconfirm? I would give her time to call/text back tomorrow.
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Old 01-17-2012, 05:52 AM
 
Location: FL
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Maybe she thinks since you guys already set up the date, she wouldn't need to hurry to reconfirm? I would give her time to call/text back tomorrow.
Ok. But why would she just ignore the calls or text? She's doing the fade and that sucks. Happens alot of these dating sites with women doing the fade on men.
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Old 01-17-2012, 05:55 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Yeah, I think people are jumping to conclusions. Wait until later today for the confirmation, you don't know what she was up to or if she was busy with work until late and didn't want to call back at an odd hour.. Just relax and wait it out, although if she doesn't contact you at all on Tuesday... I wouldn't expect much.
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:11 AM
 
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-Talked to a woman on plenty of fish

-We spoke on the phone for over an our - twice

-Last spoke to her on Friday

-Made plans for Tuesday (tmr) at a certain time and place

-Texted her today to confirm, no reply



Should I go at said place/time anyways?

She probably changed her mind because you "Badger" her too much. Seriously, no confirmation = no go.
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:14 AM
 
Location: Hartford CT
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Call and leave a message saying just want to make sure we are on, and if I don't hear back from you by this time, then I assume we are off. Don't just show up to a place assuming she will be there.
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:15 AM
 
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Maybe her phone died or she's not somewhere that she can check her phone or she's misplaced it. It's not like she hasn't responded for days.

I'd show up 10 minutes early and wait 15 minutes beyond the time you were supposed to meet. If she doesn't show then don't contact her again.
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:16 AM
 
Location: North America
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Exactly. What's with the texting when things get important??

no one calls anymore
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:19 AM
 
Location: North America
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-Talked to a woman on plenty of fish

-We spoke on the phone for over an our - twice

-Last spoke to her on Friday

-Made plans for Tuesday (tmr) at a certain time and place

-Texted her today to confirm, no reply



Should I go at said place/time anyways?

2 things are possible, one she had a family emergency and you are not on her mind atm. And the other is she just decided against meeting you and doesn't have the curtiousy to tell you.
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