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View Poll Results: Would you keep it up?
Yes 2 10.53%
No 17 89.47%
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Old 01-17-2012, 05:32 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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and you have a stunning, model-like girlfriend who only sleeps with you for your money (she openly admits it) and also admits she's not physically attracted to you, at all. I won't go as far as to say she's REPULSED by you, but she's not far from it. Assuming she hasn't broken the bank so far, would you keep the charade up? She insists she loves you for 'who you are on the inside' but you are suspicious...

I personally would not want to be with anyone who wasn't physically attracted to me. Maybe even if they truly loved me. What about you, would you ever get yourself in such a situation?
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Old 01-17-2012, 05:57 AM
 
Location: Hartford CT
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I wouldn't do it, but then again, I don't go around flaunting my money around either, nor will I. Guys who do, know the deal and they are hoping to get the results they are paying for.
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:20 AM
 
Location: New York, NY
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You contradicted yourself.

"only sleeps with you for your money (she openly admits it)"
"She insists she loves you for 'who you are on the inside'"

So which one is it? She openly admits to sleep with you for money? Or insists she loves you in the inside?
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:53 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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You contradicted yourself.

"only sleeps with you for your money (she openly admits it)"
"She insists she loves you for 'who you are on the inside'"

So which one is it? She openly admits to sleep with you for money? Or insists she loves you in the inside?
Lets say she may or may not love you on the inside but she doesn't love you on the outside.
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Old 01-17-2012, 07:46 AM
 
Location: NY
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I am struggling to picture this situation happening very much. That said, no, I would not want to be with someone who found me practically repulsive.

I do not care if their looks are model-like either. I do want to be attracted to the woman I am with. That said, my idea of attractive extends beyond the stereotypical "perfect" body.
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Old 01-17-2012, 07:57 AM
 
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This is a question better suited for CEOs and politicians.
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Old 01-17-2012, 08:42 AM
 
Location: City of Angels
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and you have a stunning, model-like girlfriend who only sleeps with you for your money (she openly admits it) and also admits she's not physically attracted to you, at all. I won't go as far as to say she's REPULSED by you, but she's not far from it. Assuming she hasn't broken the bank so far, would you keep the charade up? She insists she loves you for 'who you are on the inside' but you are suspicious...

I personally would not want to be with anyone who wasn't physically attracted to me. Maybe even if they truly loved me. What about you, would you ever get yourself in such a situation?
dump her and just sleep with high end escorts when i feel the need. would be much cheaper, and infinitely more enjoyable. only the weak cling to useless relationships.
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Old 01-17-2012, 08:44 AM
 
Location: City of Angels
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I am struggling to picture this situation happening very much.
this scenario is incredibly common in most parts of the world.
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Pawnee Nation
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Would you keep it up?
that's her job, isn't it? considering the terms of the relationship, if she doesn't, fire her and hire someone else.
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Old 01-17-2012, 10:09 AM
 
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Default You're a fat, ugly but rich guy...

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and you have a stunning, model-like girlfriend who only sleeps with you for your money (she openly admits it) and also admits she's not physically attracted to you, at all. I won't go as far as to say she's REPULSED by you, but she's not far from it. Assuming she hasn't broken the bank so far, would you keep the charade up? She insists she loves you for 'who you are on the inside' but you are suspicious...

I personally would not want to be with anyone who wasn't physically attracted to me. Maybe even if they truly loved me. What about you, would you ever get yourself in such a situation?
NO! I'd go on a diet. I don't like fat and I don't expect anyone else to. To me it is a huge turn-off.
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