you find out your spouse has another family.... (love, divorce, friend)

[~HecateWhisperCat~]

what do you do?

[fishbrains]

A whole family unknown to you?

That is a level of deception that is unforgivable. I am out of there.

That actually did happen to a friend of mine. Divorce did quickly follow.

[TaoistDude]

Family gatherings would immediately become far more "interesting."

I doubt that it would be a happy discovery, and a world of hurt is bound to follow.

[Dewdroplet76]

Send all my bills to his other house.

[cwamjn]

Lol

[Raptor76]

I have heard of stories like this. Sounds like too much work. I would be too lazy to try and take care of one family, let alone two.

[KatieCountrycm]

I just don't understand how a spouse or anyone else in a committed relationship can have the time to do this. Tales of double lives like they say.

[bellakin123]

Originally Posted by Lucidkitty

what do you do?

Make it my business to make sure the other family knows about THIS family.

[useasdirected]

Originally Posted by Raptor76

I have heard of stories like this. Sounds like too much work. I would be too lazy to try and take care of one family, let alone two.

Not to mention you have to remember extra birthdays, anniversaries, etc...

[useasdirected]

Originally Posted by KatieCountrycm

I just don't understand how a spouse or anyone else in a committed relationship can have the time to do this. Tales of double lives like they say.

That's what I'd like to know. After a full day at work, by the time I get home, make dinner, clean up, etc...., its time to go to bed because we have work the next day.

I would love to know how these people have the time. Then give them my errands to run.