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I was kinda seeing this guy but not really. He has also stood me up and ignored me...just made me feel terrible about myself(never told him this) I was suppose to go to his place a few months ago I texted and called a hour later he texted back saying he was feel asleep and I could come tomorrow. I said no way and I don't want to talk to him. I started textng off and on since then. He wanted me to come over again. Okay... I called and called texted. I sent him a MSG on facebook the next day and unfriended him. I went to his page a few hours after I sent the messages and he changed his picture of him and some girl in his room. Like why would he do that I have done nothing to him? We were just friends he knew I really liked him so much. Please no one say anything about facebook and that's what's wrong with amercas youth today and blah blah. And I will obvisously never tAlk to him again not even if he begged. Sorrry for mistakes I on my phone.
What type of person just wants to hurt someone. . . .
A narcissist. Someone that has narcissistic personality disorder, and lacks empathy and compassion for how their acts affect other people.
Inside, despite the mask they wear on the outside and portray to the world, they are actually very weak and have low self esteem. They gain a sense of power at the expense of hurting other people. Always without any empathy or capacity for remorse. They are sick and never change.
Life to them is a game, and the people that they use are pawns. Nothing more and nothing less.
They often exhibit characteristics like pathological lying, they are master manipulators and live in delusional fantasy worlds of their own creation - they are also
total users.
People in their lives serve no other purpose than to act as sources to use, manipulate and reflect back whatever self image the narcissist wants bounced back to them of what they think they are and want others to believe they are. Their lives are complete lies and facades of reality.
They are toxic and disordered. Consider yourself lucky that you did not get closer.
Eh, it's nothing to worry about and nothing to be bothered by. Like the other guy said, it's best that you didn't get too serious with him. It's better to get hurt now instead of when you are in a relationship and somewhat serious. But since you made the comment about youths these days, I take it that means you are young? If that's the case, then you definitely shouldn't worry too much about it because you've got plenty of life ahead of you and plenty of time to find a good guy who is worth your time.
He also sounds somewhat a Sociopath, very dangerous, they don't care about others feelings, they are really good liars, and at making things seem like your fault regardless of what happen.
I wonder about your comment you will not go back to him even if he begs, you will be much better off having no further contact with this person..
You have to ask yourself why you resumed texting him after he blew you off and after you told him you weren't going to see him anymore. Then you unfriended him but could not resist going back to his page to see his response. What was that all about?
You have to ask yourself why you resumed texting him after he blew you off and after you told him you weren't going to see him anymore. Then you unfriended him but could not resist going back to his page to see his response. What was that all about?
The first time I did only text him. He said he had fallen asleep. I believed him because he works overnight so it sounded plausible. So the second time I called numerous times to "wake him up" and texted him instead of leaving a voice mail. Yeah it's kinda stupid of me to keep calling because if he wanted to see me he would have made it a point. Well I was probably going to look at his page again but I did so because I went to delete all our messages and noticed the picture was different.
I'm over it everyone is right he did me a huge favor I don't want to be around anyone like that. Ugh and All the warning signs smh. I wasted so much time on him.
What type of person just wants to hurt someone. . . .
A narcissist. Someone that has narcissistic personality disorder, and lacks empathy and compassion for how their acts affect other people.
Inside, despite the mask they wear on the outside and portray to the world, they are actually very weak and have low self esteem. They gain a sense of power at the expense of hurting other people. Always without any empathy or capacity for remorse. They are sick and never change.
Life to them is a game, and the people that they use are pawns. Nothing more and nothing less.
They often exhibit characteristics like pathological lying, they are master manipulators and live in delusional fantasy worlds of their own creation - they are also
total users.
People in their lives serve no other purpose than to act as sources to use, manipulate and reflect back whatever self image the narcissist wants bounced back to them of what they think they are and want others to believe they are. Their lives are complete lies and facades of reality.
They are toxic and disordered. Consider yourself lucky that you did not get closer.
This right here!! These people are certainly toxic! I am so glad you are leaving him behind!
I wonder about your comment you will not go back to him even if he begs, you will be much better off having no further contact with this person..
He has not really begged for me back but contacted me again after saying he didn't want to talk to me anymore and I being naive forgave him.
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Originally Posted by bkern1989
But since you made the comment about youths these days, I take it that means you are young? If that's the case, then you definitely shouldn't worry too much about it because you've got plenty of life ahead of you and plenty of time to find a good guy who is worth your time.
He also sounds somewhat a Sociopath, very dangerous, they don't care about others feelings, they are really good liars, and at making things seem like your fault regardless of what happen.
I wonder about your comment you will not go back to him even if he begs, you will be much better off having no further contact with this person..
This is very insightful.
Diagnosing sociopathy in a non-clinical setting is quite difficult because the sociopath is often very skilled at offering rational explanations for his behavior. What most people don't realize is that the type of behavior described by the OP above is just the tip of the iceberg. And, as more serious issues occur in a relationship with a sociopath, the more danger there is. A person who does not have normal emotional responses to normal human interaction to the level of a sociopath cannot maintain satisfactory relationships with anyone other than a therapist in a clinical setting and should be avoided at all costs. These people are extremely destructive because they operate so effectively in everyday affairs as opposed to most seriously neurotic people who are easy to identify and avoid.
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