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Well, I have the same baggage as the OP, except Jasper is a cat.
What is sort of sad, and depressing is that I am cynical, jaded, and completely not interested in relationships any longer. I was married to a sociopath, dated so many men that were liars, and users, and men that played head games, and ones that were drama queens, that all that baggage means I am just burned out of the whole relationship scene.
Now, CD’ers, if you were to be casted on this show, what would your small, medium, and large piece of “baggage” be? It's time to reveal YOUR baggage....
I like to think so . Apparently I have yet to find a man who realizes it. I don't lose hope though.
Erm, sorry, but people who claim they can't find a man because they don't jump into bed right away are just looking for an excuse to put all the blame on someone other than themselves. Not saying you're undateable, just that things not working out probably has nothing to do with access to your vagina.
Well, I have the same baggage as the OP, except Jasper is a cat.
What is sort of sad, and depressing is that I am cynical, jaded, and completely not interested in relationships any longer. I was married to a sociopath, dated so many men that were liars, and users, and men that played head games, and ones that were drama queens, that all that baggage means I am just burned out of the whole relationship scene.
Don't give up on love, Jasper. I believe there's somebody for everybody.
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Originally Posted by UnexpectedError
Erm, sorry, but people who claim they can't find a man because they don't jump into bed right away are just looking for an excuse to put all the blame on someone other than themselves. Not saying you're undateable, just that things not working out probably has nothing to do with access to your vagina.
Well, I respect your opinion but you will have to ask those men I dated in 2011, many of them expressed the same thing to my face, someting along the lines of "If a woman doesn't sleep with me by the third date, it means she never will." Others did not like the idea of me turning down an invitation to their place on date #3 "to watch a movie." I am convinced that those I went on three dates with never called me back because I denied them access. Anyways, it didn't work with any of them because they were obviously looking for something different. I am hopeful 2012 will be a better year
Will contact another to sort this issue...thanks sA
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. Apparently I have yet to find a man who realizes it. I don't lose hope though.
. Anyways, it didn't work with any of them because they were obviously looking for something different. I am hopeful 2012 will be a better year
