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Old 01-20-2012, 10:15 AM
Location: Canada
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Originally Posted by Bkf_Tiff View Post
You're prob all right but still I kinda want a second one for some reason. If anything just to prove to myself that I can talk to anyone! But still he might/probably say no and that's ok too. I wouldn't blame him.

Also, you guys are all so harsh, don't you give people second chances?
It doesn't hurt to ask if you really feel the need to, but don't be offended if he's not interested. At the same time, if you did go on a second date, what would you do differently than the first time so it isn't awkward and uncomfortable?

I don't think there has to be an instant "spark" (you know that typical Hollywood romance of bells/whistles/fireworks feelings), but there needs to be something there that draws you in, whether personality, or a common interest.

I don't know if I'd want a second date based on how you described the first date going, but I haven't had such an awkward first date to know that for sure.
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