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Old 01-20-2012, 12:13 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Lucidkitty View Post
For the record, she is right.

You'd be surprised at the number of guys that are in commited relationships, but lie about it.

(or maybe you wouldn't, but the fact remains)

If you meet a guy and don't really know much about him and then you have sex with him at your house, the probability of a functional relationship developing out of these circumstances is negligable.

(Actually, it's a perfectly functional relationship for the guy that's already in a relationship, especially if he lives with his girl, which by the way, ain't you)

But if you find yourself in this situation, he's just using you for sex.
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:14 PM
 
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OP how old was the guy?
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:15 PM
 
Location: in your dreams
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This is a literally a blip on the screen of my life...and it has no negative net effect on me other than being embarrassed at a bar.
Hey I didn't say you lost alot, lol.
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:15 PM
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Location: hunt valley
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For the record, she is right.

You'd be surprised at the number of guys that are in commited relationships, but lie about it.

(or maybe you wouldn't, but the fact remains)

If you meet a guy and don't really know much about him and then you have sex with him at your house, the probability of a functional relationship developing out of these circumstances is negligable.


Actually i know several friends who has sex on the first date and got married. So that stereotype is just that a stereotype. A **** headed guy is going to hang around until he has the sex then youd still have the same issues.
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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For the record, she is right.


If you meet a guy and don't really know much about him and then you have sex with him at your house....
That's not what she's talking about...

She's saying that sex outside of a committed relationship is wrong, period. Not just if you don't really know the guy.

Which the vast majority of people who have had sex outside of committed relationships would take issues with.
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Hey I didn't say you lost alot, lol.
Time to bury my head in shame. Up until then I had never been embarassed at a bar before.

As if...
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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OP how old was the guy?
33 now.
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:21 PM
 
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33 now.
how old was he at the time? sounds a little old for throwing tantrums like that
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Old 01-20-2012, 12:24 PM
 
Location: NC
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I've gone out for drinks with two of the past women my guy's been with, while we were living together. I don't have insecurity.
A rare woman indeed...... Never met too many women in the south who would be cool with this.

It is always the model types who seemed to be the worst at this. Eventually I just had to drop nearly all of my non work related female friends.....


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Old 01-20-2012, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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how old was he at the time? sounds a little old for throwing tantrums like that
Well this is over the span of four years, so from 29 to 33.
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