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Old 01-22-2012, 08:05 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Default "Creepy" Behavior

I was on another message board where a discussion arose on guys who are in bars/clubs/social settings/whatever who were talking to girls & thinking that things were going well and then things sort of fell apart. The consensus among others was that they were being "creepy" without realizing it.

What are some things that guys do unknowingly that may be termed creepy? I'd like to hear from both guys & gals.
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:11 PM
 
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I think the best case scenario is when the guy is being himself and doesn't try to "act" like some kind of operator. Using pick up lines and talking dirty to total strangers is weird, imo. Before anyone jumps on me for that statement, keep in mind it is one person's opinion. He asked for opinions and I gave mine. I don't think I'm alone, however. If you don't like what I've said, ignore it, but please don't attack me because you disagree with me.
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:12 PM
 
Location: USA
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When they never make eye contact
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Hilo, HI
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I rarely go to bars or pick up places but on the few times I have, none of the guys there actually seemed creepy to me.

What comes off as creepy to me is someone very touchy feely when we just met and when a guy mentions several times that he will take me to xxxx, then xxxx, and then xxxx. The joke is, the guys that have stated that they will take me to certain places either never call me or call me out of the blue thinking I'm interested.
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:17 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I think if a dude talks sexual with a woman he doesn't know well.
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:19 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Originally Posted by Red On The Noodle View Post
When they never make eye contact
??? What does this mean? While they're talking to you? Or just in general?
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:20 PM
 
Location: USA
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Originally Posted by Soviet View Post
??? What does this mean? While they're talking to you? Or just in general?
When they're talking to you
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:20 PM
 
Location: NC
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Getting too personal too fast.
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:23 PM
 
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Elevator eyes, lip licking, sexual gestures.
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:23 PM
Status: "Busy World Cuping" (set 25 days ago)
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Originally Posted by spinx View Post
Elevator eyes, lip licking, sexual gestures.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...levator%20eyes

Mehn, I'm one heck of a creep.
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