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View Poll Results: When it comes to pornography........
I Am A Women Who Would NOT Want My Husband/Boyfreind To Watch Porn 27 17.53%
I Am A Women Who Wouldn't Care If My Husband/Boyfreind Watched Porn 8 5.19%
I Am A Women Who Would Watch Porn With My Husband/Boyfreind 27 17.53%
I Am A Man Who Would NOT Want My Wife/Girlfreind To Watch Porn 12 7.79%
I Am A Man Who Wouldn't Care If My Wife/Girlfreind Watched Porn 27 17.53%
I Am A Man Who Would Watch Porn With My Wife/Girlfreind 53 34.42%
Voters: 154. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-29-2012, 10:01 AM
 
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Then I suggest you not date/marry men.

Studies show that 95% watch it and the other 5% are lying.

mMen are visual. Society says they have to be monogamous, their nature says "no"; so they use the safe avenue of porn wathcing in lieu of the rough and hurtful road of adultery.
Oh please...

Of course men are visual. We're all visual: we have eyes. Men like beautiful bodies. But you can see beautiful bodies and avoid all the ugliness, histrionics and mechanicism that most porn boasts. Some men don't watch porn because it's other sorts of visual representation that turn them on. And I've met more than one who was and is like that.

But of course, you know the truth, because your studies say so.
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Hudson, OH
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No, no need to ban this OR pornography. But questionable too is whether a person should READ them...

Still, there is a difference between a guy watching a naked woman and masturbating to her image and a woman reading a book (however risque) while fully dressed, I submit.
You're assuming she doesn't take care of business? That's right, because women don't masturbate to relieve sexual urges.

I can use a Hitachi over my jeans. Bonus of being a woman.
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:05 AM
 
Location: TX
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You're assuming she doesn't take care of business? That's right, because women don't masturbate to relieve sexual urges.
If she's doing this to an image of another man (even one she creates in her head), she's just as guilty as the man who does it to pornogrpahy, of course. But I question that most women read these for sexual delight

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(to Doctor Blues) But of course, you know the truth, because your studies say so.
Lol, I thought the link he provided was an interesting read, myself
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Hudson, OH
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If she's doing this to an image of another man (even one she creates in her head), she's just as guilty as the man who does it to pornogrpahy, of course. But I question that most women read these for sexual delight
Of course they read them for sexual delight, even if they never let themselves get past damp panties. It's not for intellectual stimulation, it's for a prurient interest. We're human. We love the tinglies!
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Hudson, OH
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Anyone want some Biscuits for breakfast?


Netflix Biscuit, Show Don't Tell - YouTube
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:24 AM
 
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If she's doing this to an image of another man (even one she creates in her head), she's just as guilty as the man who does it to pornogrpahy, of course.
Guilty of what, exactly?
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:29 AM
 
Location: TX
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Guilty of what, exactly?
Cheating in her mind. I shouldn't have to tell you everything.

And before you ask, I shouldn't have to explain why again either.
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:32 AM
 
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Cheating in her mind. I shouldn't have to tell you everything.

And before you ask, I shouldn't have to explain why again either.
"Cheating" is not universally defined. Different relationships have different rules. You are speaking as though relationship terms are fixed for everyone. Rest assured, they are not.
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Old 01-29-2012, 10:54 AM
 
Location: TX
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"Cheating" is not universally defined. Different relationships have different rules. You are speaking as though relationship terms are fixed for everyone. Rest assured, they are not.
Obviously, if the couple agrees that it's "Ok", it isn't cheating (though full of questionable motives nonetheless). The question of whether pornography is worth the societal and individual risks is beyond the scope of this thread, so we can leave it at that if you wish. If not, refer to the past few pages of discussion here.
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Old 01-29-2012, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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If there was a decent one to watch, I'd watch with my man now and then just to get some new ideas but most are so incredibly stupid I can't bear it. And most are nothing close to what women really like but many men watch to get clues. Big mistake. Makes men dumber in bed in most cases--judging from personal experience and the endless complaints from women about their partners.
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