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Originally Posted by calicali01
It's true.
Yes...it doesn't bother me much, though. It may take a little longer to find Miss Right but I hope it'll be worth it. Not that I'm specifically chasing a white woman, Asian women and black women for that matter can be just as attractive, but I live in a place where I'm the minority and I'm not one to limit my options. I guess naturally I've liked white women most of the time because that's what I'm used to but I have liked a few women of other races. It's a pity I've never had a relationship with a woman of any race haha.
I was thinking a 'mixed' woman would be really attractive, although they're harder to find. I wonder if say mixed asian/white women tend to swing towards white men, while mixed men towards asians?
You all are taking this too literally. It's just a general observation, and by no means am I trying to stereotype people.
Really?
I think we are getting your point of view loud and clear.
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Originally Posted by calicali01
Same here, I'm DONE with Amercian black women, and this is coming from a black guy. And I also understand the abuse that American black women can dish out. Amercian black women have little or no self restraint and they feel as though they have a license to violently attack others as if they are above the law.
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Originally Posted by calicali01
Personally, I don't believe the issue is so much about the race mixture of the children because there is no pure race anyway, but its more about the fact that white men are looking for women who will be good mothers, good wives, and a good public image and they simply can't get that package from an American black women.
To be fair, I will go as far as to say that due to feminism, white men are having a hard time finding this package within their own European women as well, so they have their sights set on Asian and Hispanic women because they place more importance on the old traditional values.
And then we have this little morsel of wisdom...
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Originally Posted by calicali01
LOL!!!!!
The issue was, he married an Americanized Asian woman so that was his mistake.
Had he learned to speak an Asian language, lived with the girl in her country, and played the role like he was just an averaged Joe, he would have been MUCH better off.
This entire thread is off-putting and quite frankly disturbing. In the past I've often wondered whether I was indeed better off for having removed myself from the dating realm. Now I'm pretty sure I am.
I'd rather remain alone than participate in the petty racial politics that has infected and perhaps forever corrupted the American dating scene.
And not only that, but the science is in that all non African people carry Neanderthal DNA. So in other words, Asians and Europeans are part Neanderthal.
Usually, the difference between Black men and Black women who date/have relationships/marry interracially is that Black men tend to not only blame Black women but revile them in the most unnecessary manner. For the most part, Black women will not bash Black men to their non-Black partner.
The majority of my relationships have been with non-Black men however, I have NEVER bashed Black men to any of them. Many Black men feel the need to justify dating/have relationships/marry non-Black women by making Black women villians.
I do not have a problem with Black men having non-Black partners but I do believe that the tendency to "bad-mouth" Black women says far more about them than it does about Black women. They have a need to drag Black women through the gutter in order to place non-Black women on their pedestal. (Just ask Terrence Howard how well that worked out for him )
So, do you think that black men treat their non black girlfriends better than they treat black women? And likewise do you treat non black boyfriends differently. From what I read here and on dating sites that could be in some cases? My black male friends often say Im nuts for dating black women but never directly bad mouth them. More like "whew, you don't know what your in for?" Kidding, but no hate.
white men are looking for women who will be good mothers, good wives, and a good public image and they simply can't get that package from an American black women.
If you're going to make blanket statements about black women, you must realize that black men (like yourself) don't exactly have the best reputation for being the best husbands, fathers, law abiding citizens, etc. either, so I think you need to stop pointing fingers, step away from the computer, and go sit down somewhere.
What are the stigmas that scares white men when having mixed kids???
Stigmas? Proven fact, a mixed-race child could be intelligent enough to grow up and become President of the country. That's sure to be enough to deter any man...
If a woman already has kids, they are part of the picture. If she does not, there are no kids to know. It is the woman that is the prime factor. Either she's worth it or she is not. If a white man is attracted to a black woman, mixed-race kids should not be a factor.
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