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Old 01-29-2012, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I think if a guy is really into you, he won't mind cuddling. My guy says he never liked it and wouldn't do it before, but he likes it with me. He even initiates it himself sometimes.
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Old 01-29-2012, 08:07 PM
 
Location: TX
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Is my behavior odd?
No, it's just your own preference. I'm the same way when it comes to sleeping. I gotta have my space! But maybe compromise with her and cuddle on the couch during a movie? Not for the entire duration or anything, either. Just for a few minutes at a time. That should be enough. If it isn't, and she's willing to end the relationship or hassle you over it, you don't have the makings with this woman for a solid relationship anyway.
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Old 01-29-2012, 09:29 PM
 
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I'm hoping he'll come back and clarify - I don't think he meant she actually lays her whole body on top of his body - that would be rather uncomfortable!

I'm thinking she lays her head on his chest but lays her body along his body maybe in the crook of his arm?
Well that is what "cuddling" and "snuggling" is to most of us. But that certainly isn't what the OP stated.

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How does she think I'm supposed to sleep with her 120ish pound body on my chest?
Still, sleeping, and cuddling (or snuggling) are two different things. My and my guy love to cuddle and snuggle. But when it's time to sleep - we split up - neither of us can sleep if we are too warm, so we stay to our own sides.
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Old 01-29-2012, 09:31 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Sometimes it's hard not to sport wood if you cuddle with a woman, I know sometimes that can turn a woman off, because they think, "Why cant he just lay with me without wanting sex."


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Old 01-29-2012, 09:47 PM
 
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Sometimes it's hard not to sport wood if you cuddle with a woman, I know sometimes that can turn a woman off, because they think, "Why cant he just lay with me without wanting sex."


Yeah, sorry, intimate touch from a woman makes me sport wood.

What do you want me to do? Alert her that everytime she wants to cuddle there is a 100% chance I get wood?
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