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Well I started dating a guy from school for a few months now and we are only in one class together this semester. Well we had our first class and I saw him talking to some other girl. About what I don't know. He mentioned last week that his sister is having some serious health problems, so I don't want to bug him too much anyway. However when I saw him in class he did not say much to me and after class only mentioned that we could maybe go out on the weekend. Yet he hasn't even called me or texted me since he said that. Honestly it just feels like he's blowing me off and I don't know why. Should I just call him and ask him what's up?
You're making a bunch of negative assumptions right now - and NO ONE likes getting a "What's up?" phone call from a love interest. Assume the best, until proven wrong, if you want the relationship to last.
If he has admitted to have a lot of family issues going on, his mind may be focused on those issues. I am not certain, but it is a possibility.
Might be best for you to take initiative, call him, and ask him out. If he isn't intentionally blowing you off, he may appreciate being able to get away from the stess, relax, and have some fun.
You've been dating him for a few months now and it sounds like the relationship isn't progressing to a level you hoped for and feel disappointed as a result. Understandably so.
If I was dating a guy for a few months and had some family problems relating to health, the first person I'd call and text is the person I'm seeing.
Given that he sounds like he has a lot going on (and I assume as you do too), he probably needs some space and I'd take care of myself also. Maybe when he feels better he will ring you up. Sometimes, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Other times, taking care of personal needs while giving another person space helps both partners re-evaluate and assess where they are both at in the relationship (dating phase- certainty vs. uncertainty to something more serious).
However when I saw him in class he did not say much to me and after class only mentioned that we could maybe go out on the weekend.
Today is Monday. You posted on Friday.
Did you go out on the weekend with him?
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